Sometimes the breakup is the blessing…

Yes I speak to people all the time and alot of people complain that they are lonely,  that they cant find someone and yet they prayed while in their old relationship for things to change. 

You were miserable, you hated your life and your partner so god listened and gave your freedom and yet you complain now. The breakup was your blessing! You need to learn things about yourself and your part you played in that relationship to be able to become better at making choices. You need to own what you did and know what you will put up with and what is an absolute deal breaker and be firm about them when going into the next relationship. 

You might need to learn to be comfortable with your own company or taking care of yourself there are all kinds of reasons you are alone, all kinds of lessons you need to learn before you are ready.

The last thing you want to do is repeat the same mistake you just left, I pray every day “please God let me learn my mistakes and never repeat them” I never want to be in that type of relationship again, where I cant be me, the true me, that I should change to try to make someone else happy. I am happy with me , I love myself, I know what I have done, I raise my hand to my part , I have worked on myself to try to be the best me possible,  I am not looking to change anyone else,  they have to do that on their own. That is their path, their journey,  I want healthy and together just what I am offering, I want that in return, so if I am alone for a week , a month or years I am good with it, I have incredible family and friends,  I have interests and things I love doing  and I constantly put myself out there to meet new people so when the times comes I will be ready! 

So don’t rush it believe me the break up was your blessing, enjoy it!