letting go is the hardest thing to do

There are sometimes in life where you must let go of things that no longer serve purpose in your life, things that cause you heartache, or things that you know are not getting you to a place your longing to get to.

This goes for everything including people in your life, if you have a purpose there are times that, that person does not fit into your purpose. They are holding you back from the greatness god has for, maybe its the negative relative that always puts down every idea or thought you say, maybe its the husband or wife that makes you feel horrible about yourself, maybe its the person your in love with, who can not or will not return the love you need.

These people are keeping you stuck in neutral, you cant move forward because your still holding on, hoping they will change..and it been how long? A year?5 years?10 years? When is it enough?

Its enough when you realize that you haven’t come this far to be stuck in neutral, that you are ready to move forward, that there are bigger and better things awaiting for you, you just have to do one of the hardest things your ever going to do and that is to cut them out of your life.

Will it be easy?  oh Hell no! I wont lie, but there is no other choice if you want to progress in your life.

You meed to start putting you first, especially if your my age , time is ticking and we don’t have any to waste.

There might be something or someone right there for you but your so stuck on stupid you miss it!

You cannot change someone else, you can be there, you can give advice but eventually its on them to want to change, not for someone else but for themselves. 

You are on your path and as much as you wish, pray and cry for this to happen for them, until they want it as much for themselves as you want it for them, you are just standing in neutral banging your head against the steering wheel. 

They have their path, you have yours, have a pity party, stay in your pj’s all day , cry your eyes out, grieve for your loss.

Then wake up the next morning,  get dressed,get in your car, its time to free up your pathway, put yourself on go and hit the gas, dont look back !

Steve Harvey says “you cant drive your car, looking in the rear view mirror”

Look For the blessings they are straight ahead!