Keep your head held high

No matter what I’ve been through in my life time, I have always kept my head held high, I knew who I was and what my worth was. It wasn’t until I gave away my power that I lost the sense of who I was and when I no longer felt my worth it was then I walked with my head down, feeling defeated and worthless. 


You might be at that point in your life right now, you might be in a relationship that you know is over, that has killed your spirit and your self esteem,  yet your holding on, hoping for change, hoping to find your lost self.


I am here to tell you that you will never find it until you step out and change things, you need to get past the fear.


We had a guest speaker Bishop Bloomer tonight he was talking about your worth, is your worth only when he calls you at 2 am, not even to take you out to McDonald’s?


How do you carry yourself? Are you waiting around year after year with the promise of a commitment yet it has never come to pass?


What does your package say about you? Are you showing the world all your goods? Or does it say I am a lady and deserve to be treated like one? 


Are you going to stand by and let that man walk all over you, lying and cheating behind your back while you turn a blind eye to it yet again or will you stand up and say, you have more value than that and will not be treated like that.


Has he took away your self esteem? Made you to believe you are worthless, not beautiful and that without him you’d be no one?


You start to think, no one else will want me , I am to old to start over,  I am broken and damaged and not good enough, not pretty enough, not skinny enough,this is what I deserve.


I am here to tell you you are all that you speak you are! Wake up and tell yourself you are beautiful , you are worthy,  you are smart, find some women friends that will tell you that, because if your friends are not lifting you up, they are the wrong friends, just like he is the wrong man.


Do you not realize you are the child of the most high God and every day you should know your worth and stand up with your head held high.


It doesn’t matter what you have been through, the things that you let people do to you, how long you’ve stayed in that horrible marriage,  that someone got over on you, none of that matters, it only matters that you are willing to change, to walk away with your head held high and say what hasn’t killed me has made me stronger.


I believe in myself and my self worth, I want to be an example to my children and to other women, that yes it is possible to change and walk away with a testimony, to tell others your story.


To know that all the pain you have been through wasn’t all for nothing, it was so you may inspire others to know that you can get through anything with Gods help. That you can find peace and joy, that you can and will find your self worth and once again walk with your head held high, knowing that you are all that he made you to be.


Now stand up straight,Shoulders back, head held high and show the world what you are made of!