Yes, I realize that, that might be a little harsh but there are so many people out there who need to hear it.
Get on with your life already!!
Yes we all have things that have happened to us in our life, some of us worst than others but that doesn’t mean we are stopped in that spot and we stay thee.
Yes, your man cheated, he lied to you and broke your heart, you take him back time after time, does that mean for the next ten, twenty or in my grandmothers case 40 years are we still going to have to hear about it every day!
Yes, your mother was an alcoholic, your father beat you, you were abandoned as a child and grew up in the system, is that who you are?
No, these are circumstances that happened to you, this is not who you are. These are the things that make you stronger, that change who you are for the better if you chose to make it that way.
Yes, you chose to become a better parent because your parent was so lousy, you chose not to drink because you remember what it was like to pick up your parents off the floor and clean them up night after night.
You chose not to cheat and lie because you seen how it broke your grandmothers heart 40 years later but you chose something and you get on with your life.
You don’t spend the next how many years whining about it, giving life to it every day, stuck in that spot unable to move forward. No! You get up , you hopefully learn a lesson, because everything that happens to us teaches us a lesson if we are willing to look for it and then you take your lesson and you move on, that’s it, move on, end of story.
We all have problems, if you don’t I feel sorry for you as you have never learned any lessons, but if we were to sit around a table and each one of us would take out or problems and put them on the table, I guarantee you, you would be quick to grab yours back!
So let it go, its over, its called the past for a reason, forgive, and then get on with your life, how long has this been holding you back? Life is way to short to be stuck, start your life over from this minute, its never to late!