Never going back there again…ever

I am a easy going person, I try to see the best in everyone and I am big on forgiveness but when I am done with you, I am done,there is no going back, ever!


I will give you the shirt off my back, I will be your friend through thick and thin, if I am in love with you , I will be your biggest cheerleader, you will never have to think about if I have your back, I do!


If you break my trust,  if you purposely hurt me, its over, done, finished, I am a one and done girl , just like my idea about tattoo’s, for me one and done, don’t need to feel that pain again, got one that expresses all I feel, done.


Yes, I will forgive you but sorry I don’t need to learn the lesson again, I’m good thanks! When I finally had the courage to leave my abusive marriage, that was it , there was no going back, been there, done that results continued to be the same, so why stay?


When my ex boyfriend cheated years ago, I threw him out in the street at 1 am on Christmas eve , oh yes I was done, Christmas eve not, sorry.


 Just like the last “boyfriend” who was leading double life, I threw him to the , curb at 2 am (wait… there’s a pattern here.. don’t piss me off in the middle of the night if you need a place to sleep)


It’s over done, no explanations, no I’m sorrys, done I don’t need a repeat performance, got it loud and clear the first time.


I don’t understand people out there they let their “others” hit them, then make excuses for their behavior, then after the second, third time, they are still there, why? Do you really expect a different result? He’s cheated on you a dozen times, do you really think if he does it 13 times , that will be enough for him, he will stop there? Come on be real!

Is a no good man better than no man? Are you that afraid of being alone that you will put up with anything? 


He’s lied about his past, his finances, his ex’s , you’ve caught him in more lies than you have fingers and toes, yet you believe the next thing he says out of his mouth, really? That Brooklyn Bridge is pretty cheap and I can get you a good deal on it. 


He’s promised he would quit drinking, gambling,  doing drugs,  yet he he comes again broke and drunk yet again and there you are cleaning up his puke and lying to the landlord yet again,  why?? Why do you think this time will be different?


I am not saying that people don’t make mistakes, read my blog, I am far from perfect and have screwed up plenty of times but there has to be a line if you cross it, its over. I like myself way to much to be treated like that anymore, you should like yourself that much, believe me being alone is so much better than being with someone you can’t trust or has hurt you over and over again, I swear to you, you will be okay.


Have some self worth, know your value, know that you are a queen or king and by God you will be treated like one or there is the door, don’t let it hit you in the ass on the way out! Period!


Learn your lesson, take it and move on, be determined you will not repeat that mistake twice. You will see it coming the next time, you will lay ground rules on how you will be treated and if you not its over and mean it!


Dr.Phil always says you start a relationship the way you want to be treated, stand up and know your worth and take nothing less!


You will be amazed as how good that feels, you deserve it, you are worth it, you can do it! Stand up and don’t look back, you can’t drive your car looking at the rear view mirror.