Why is that you can not live without a man?

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Why is it that you think you can not live without a man?

Every morning I talk to my best friend on the way to work, we talk about everything and yesterday the topic of discussion was women who can’t seem to live without men.

Some women will even settle for a crappie man than no man, really? ? Why? Are you that afraid to be alone? I now listen to that voice inside of me when it comes to men, really listen and believe me it took a long time ( I am hard headed,read my other blogs and you will see) but all of those lessons taught me to listen.

Recently I dated a guy,he seemed nice enough but something wasn’t right in my gut, I couldn’t explain it but I couldn’t get rid of the feeling so instead I got rid of him! No more poo pooing it away, trying to make excuses, nope I know the feeling and he was gone, poof just like that! Why? Because I don’t need a man, I am not desperate, I like myself and my own company, I have a fulfilling life now, don’t get me wrong, yes I would like to find someone to share my life with, but I am not desperate to have to grab onto the first one or a crappie one.

I want a man, I don’t need a man big difference, perfect example you have a big event and your looking for a dress,  you have a dress at home but you would  like a new one. You know what you want, you know your budget and you know what type of look you want to project, you try on a lot of dresses but time is coming to a end, so you buy a dress that you don’t really love, not really sure about and pay too much for, just because you think time is running out.
Now your all laughing because we’ve all done this.. you could have wore that great dress you had at home but in stead you settled for something you weren’t sure about.
Ha! Same thing with men, you are that great dress at home but you “need” to be with someone, anyone so you settle.

So today my friends, don’t settle, listen to that voice, be your own person it’s okay to be single, you get to know yourself, you get to figure out what you like and enjoy, you get to try new things and meet new people, it’s not a crime to be alone, don’t settle for less than you deserve, listen to the voice and know your worth waiting for.


Missing your blessings

Treadmill Treats Monday message

Missing your blessings

How many of us missed our blessings because we took our eye off the prize, we thought we could do this on our own.
Ego is huge, it tells you “I got this, I don’t need help”

God has already gave you your blessings you weren’t open and you missed it.
You were too busy trying to do things your way, too worried about how the bills were going to get paid, what if’s filled your head.

When you believe, when you have no other option but to believe….When time and time again you didn’t listen to God but did what you what wanted to do and time and time again it didn’t work out, when you  can no longer do this on your own, this is when you call out “when is my blessings coming?”

Don’t you see he has tried to give them to you over and over but you had this, so he waited for you to realize that it’s not all about you but all about him.

I write all the time how hard headed I am, how I trust but how doubt still comes in, how the what if’s get to me, I am human even though I believe, I still stress sometimes and I too have missed my blessings because of this.

Did this God we serve part the red sea? Did he not turn water into wine? Did he not raise his son from death? And what about the little miracles I see here, people I knew with stage 4 cancer, healed, people who lost their house, incredibly the bank says their mortgage is paid off, hell what about my own miracles, my home I am getting, 30,000 below market value?  Just when my other deal fell through. Are these all just coincidences? No, these are all God moments, God’s miracles right here, right now!

This message today was for me, I prayed for a sign… (yet again,you did read about my hard headness ?) God always gives me a message when I need to hear it, I am hard headed, I need to do things my way,even when I hear God’s voice, even when he opens doors, when others slam shut, I am still afraid, my human side comes out and I worry about how it can that possibly happen?

I write this to let you know your not alone, I am a believer yet I worry but then I pray and I know he will take care of this…of me and I know if there more storms I will still believe… I will fall but I will get back up, you can believe that!

So today my friends if you let God have his way, he will birth things out of you and your life that will blow your mind. ..
God is pouring out blessings, In every God moment there is a leap of faith….leap….leap…God will be there to catch you.