Hump day Treadmill Treats
Living well is the best revenge
The other day my ex husband texted me and let me have it about our daughter missing school as she slept at my house the night before (it was a testing day and if you didn’t have testing you didn’t have to go obviously he didn’t know that or care )
He proceed to call me a no good piece of s**t, a **hole , a f*****g liar plus other choice words including being a lousy mother.
I told him I no longer have to deal with him verbally abusing me anymore and his words no longer had any effect on my life.
Unfortunately the following day I had to deal with my him face to face because of our daughter.
It was probably the first time since the divorce and I was praying that I held my temper and not smack him like I wanted to for the day before.
( yes, I am christian but I am far from perfect as this obviously shows) He came by my new home and looked around while we were talking, taking in all the beautiful work I had done with the place, but never once did he say anything about how it looked.
As I stood there I realized that he truly held no power over me, no I felt nothing except gratefulness that I was divorce from this man. I remember how he would put me down, how when he got mad like now, how that vein pulsed on his bald head, how it was his way or no way, all those memories came back but they didn’t keep me in bondgage it actually felt like it set me free. I was done…I was living this wonderful life that is full of family and friends and I have all of this peace and joy in my heart. I sat here looking at him, with all of this hate, anger and jealously inside of him and I felt sorry for him.
I knew that no matter what kind of karma may be coming down the line for him, living well was the best revenge and I was doing just that…living an incredible amazing life.
So today my friends remember to let go of vendettas, let go of the hate and pain, live your life to the fullest, live an amazing, incredible, fulfilling life….because that my friends is truly the best revenge.