Hump day Treadmill Treats
What do you do when you get discouraged?
We all get discouraged now and then even the most positive people have this happen to them.
You think you can’t do this, it’s not working, not coming fast enough, it’s easier to give up, just forget about it.
I remember I was at the end of my rope, I had hit rock bottom. One day me and some friends went to a card reader, she told me I would still be in this horrible marriage for another 4 years, I remembered that I screamed at her “4 years are you crazy! I can’t do this for 4 years more!”
Yet, it wasn’t time for me to go, I wasn’t sure of myself at that point, I needed more time to know I was strong and independent, to be able to make it on my own, to be able to take care of my girls.
Did I get discouraged? Hell ya but I kept going every time I thought I couldn’t do it, I thought what would it look like to be happy, free and on my own. I would dream of it, envision it as if it already happened, it was real to me as real as me breathing every day.
I would think of the outcome and that would keep me going.
I wrote about it, I had a vision board, I put it out in the universe each and every day.
I never gave up, even after I got knocked down, I couldn’t find a job for almost a year, the constant fighting and hatred in the home, then after the divorce I got no alimony and a measly child support, through all the disappointments I held on…yes there were some pity parties I can’t lie but the next day I was back stronger than ever.
So today my friends, think about what will happen if you didn’t get to your end result, where would you be, you never know if you quit, look at the big picture and let nothing stop you from getting there…get off disappointment street and start walking on hope Ave it’s a way different neighborhood.