There are good men out there..

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There are good men out there

 

This week I have been writing about wanting to find someone, I don’t need a man to complete me, I am complete, I don’t need a man to make me happy, I am happy but I would like to have someone to share my life with.

 

With all of my dating horror stories, well okay they are not all bad, just most of them!

I always try to look at the bright side, at least I get good stories to write about from them. But honestly, I truly know there are good men out there.

 

I was blessed enough to have 3 wonderful men in my life growing up, my dad, my step dad and a incredible family friend named Sam, these 3 men were the best men I’ve ever met, they are what real men should be. The men today need to have taken lessons from these 3 men.

 

So it’s not like I dont know what a good man looks like. I have also picked quite a few really good men in my life, it just didn’t work out for one reason or another but they are still in my life because they are such incredible men.

 

I have some great male friends, single dads, hard working, willing to help when your in a bind, kind and caring men who I am proud to call friends.

 

But I have also picked some winners, the ones that left you shaking your head asking yourself “What was I thinking?”

 

I can not lump all men together and say all men are bad, that would be like saying all women are bitches and I know for a fact that is not true, I have the most incredible group of women friends that are kind and sweet, caring and loving, that any man would be blessed to have.

 

So no, I will not lump them all together even if sometimes it seems like they are all block heads looking for only one thing, with no manners or filters on their tongues. I do know that a good man is hard to find and one day when I am not looking I will find that good man and when I do, it will blow my mind.

 

So today my friends, ¬†remember there are good people out there, don’t let the bads ones spoil your search and say all of them are no good. Keep a open mind, keep throwing out the bad ones and keep looking for that diamond in the rough. They are out there…you know how I know? ¬†Because I am a good one, you are a good one…we are out there that means they are out there as well.

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

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Dont judge me by one blog

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Don’t judge me by one blog

 

I write this blog every day, 5 days a week for the last 3 years. I write about everything, my life, the world, exercise, dating, family, love, disappointment, failures, hopes and dreams, there is not a topic I haven’t written about.

 

Yesterday I told someone that I write, they went to my website and read my blog I had wrote the day before, called “There are no princes.”

Then they proceed to tell me that I am not a inspirational writer but a man basher.

 

Well, they were right….for that day I was a man basher, being a single women in today’s world is tough and after 2 years of being lied to, being stood up, catfished and listenIng to men say horrible and vulgar things to me, I had lost it and yes I wrote about it, just like I write about everything else in my life.

 

But does one blog defined a person? Is that all your willing to look at? Did you even bother to read last week series on living life large, loving big, because you never know when you will lose a loved one. Did you read the blog on forgiveness, when I forgave my rapist? How about the one on never giving up no matter how many times you fall on your face?

 

No, you didn’t, you chose to judge me on one and only one blog and frankly that is your problem, I ¬†imagine this is how you view people and the world.

 

I know there is more than one side to a story, I know there is more about a person then you see, I know people have flaws yet I can see, they have a huge heart. I see the big picture, the whole picture before I judge someone and even then I think there may be extenuating circumstances that might come into play, besides who am I to judge?

 

So today my friends, don’t be so fast to judge someone else, they say first impressions are critical but they are not the end all and be all, sometimes a first impression may be bad but if your willing to look past that, give that person another chance you might have a chance to know an incredible person. Don’t lose that opportunity.

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

***Now available***

My new book The blessing in Disguise

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Www.treadmilltreats.com

 

And on Amazon.com

 

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