You cant fool me

Tuesday Treadmill Treats

 

You can’t fool me

 

You can’t fool me, see I have been there, I have done that and I have put it all out there for the world to see.

 

There are no secrets, no skeletons in my closet, I have nothing to be afraid of and so I can tell you, I know what you are trying to pull.

 

When my kids try to get over on me, are you kidding? I invented half of those lies, I snuck out, I partied all night, no you can’t fool me there is nothing they are getting over on me…

 

When friends lie to me, do you not think I know? I was an expert liar in my marriage, I had alot of practice, 24 years of practice, I know that lie because I spoke them.

 

Do you think when people tell me their clean that I don’t know the signs. Please, I was an addict, I know the sneakiness, the motions, the jitters, the jonesing, I was there I know you can’t fool me.

 

I know that your putting on a mask of perfection to show the world because your too afraid to be yourself.

 

I know this because I should have gotten an Academy award for my performance of being the perfect family in the mist of disfunction.

 

Do you not think I know how to hide secrets?

I know when your hiding one because I had so many I was hiding, sometimes I couldn’t remember which lie I was telling and to whom.

 

The only person you think your fooling is yourself,

if someone has been there they know what your hiding and isn’t it tiring to have to hide, to lie, to constantly live afraid of what if?

 

What if they find out I am a fraud? If they find out what I’ve done in my past?

What if my life is not the perfect life, my kids not the perfect kids…hurry someone is coming over shove all of the skeletons back in the closet and shut the door before we are found out.

 

No, that was too much work, too much stress, too much guilt and worry. I am free now I have nothing to worry about I put it all out there, it’s done, I spoke truth over all of it and now it’s done. But don’t think I can’t see what your hiding because I was you…

 

So today my friends, I am here to tell you that you don’t have to live that life of fear, of constantly worrying about getting caught, set yourself free.

 

Live your life, live in honesty, let go of the fear and step out on truth… because your not fooling anyone but yourself.

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

” And just when the moth thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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forget it

Treadmill Treats Monday Message

 

Forget it..

 

Sometimes it is the hardest thing we can do to forget, yes we may even be able to forgive but we hold on to things and we can’t forgot them. I’m here to tell you, whatever is holding you back,forget it.

 

Your on this journey of fulfilling your purpose he gave you, you have a purpose over your life but the enemy is trying to throw things at you, he trying to keep you in the past, with all of your hurts and failures, keeping you stuck.

 

What we dont realize is that every pain serves a purpose, every stumble teaches you a lesson. Why are we so embarrassed about our failures? How else are we supposed to learn?

 

Yet we do that all the time, we constantly beat ourselves up for the mistakes we’ve made.   Don’t keep going back into yesterday and pulling up the things that happened to you, forget it, let it go.

 

Push past your pain, declare that your not going to give up, say that your a survivor, that your anointed, tell yourself whatever you need to but make sure you tell yourself, you will never quit!

 

Say, I am going to make sure I declare my calling, my purpose and I will follow my path, no matter what is thrown at me, no matter how many times I slip and fall, no matter how many doors get slammed in my face, I will keep going…

 

You’ve been hurt so you stop.

You’ve been lied to, so you stop.

 

Your stuck, you won’t let people close to you because your reaching back into your past and seeing past hurts.

You can’t trust, so you close yourself off, thinking everyone is untrustworthy.

 

Your never going to grow  until you fight for yourself. Yes, people hurt you, they lied to you, betrayed you, they broke your heart but some people aren’t meant to be with you throughout your journey. You have to learn to trust God on your own. You have to know you can do this, all by yourself if you have no one to run to, know you have God.

 

So today my friends, press, push and keep going!

Don’t stop, don’t look back,there is a reason the front windshield is bigger than then back windshield, you need to let go of what you’ve already passed and focus on what’s in front of you..your future, your purpose, your destiny….

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

” And just when the moth thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Forgiveness is not for others

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Forgiveness is not for others, it is for you…

 

Yesterday I wrote about my asking for help, because of a decision I made to help my best friend out.

Since she has shut off all means of communication and I now realize that I will never get my money from her.

 

I had to do something I never thought I would ever do, to ask for help from my family and friends, so that I can replace my air conditioning unit.

The money I had loaned her, was for my needs but I put her needs before mine, in her time of need.

 

I tell you all the time, I am human, I was hurt, I was mad, I wanted to punch her in the face, hey I am only  human!

 

I had all of these emotions going through me at once, I hated her for throwing our friendship away, for money and a man. How could she hurt me like this?

I had not olny lost my money but my best friend.

 

But I knew I had to forgive her not for her for me. See I learned that unforgiviness will empower those who OWE you to OWN you…

 

Yes, they will own you, your thoughts, your emotions, your time, your whole life is thinking and hating them…they own you.

 

Letting go, let’s you go… you have to forgive and then let go…it’s the only way to release it. In order for us to continue to grow, we have to learn how to continue letting go.

 

Now let me tell you, forgiveness is NOT…a approval of what the offender did to you…

Is is not closing our eyes to the wrong…

 

Forgiveness is not forgetting…

Forgiveness is not submitting to abuse…

Forgiveness is not automatically trusting again…

Forgiveness is not always the restoration of a relationship…you can forgive but your not going to get played again, your not going to allow that person back into your life.

 

Yes, I forgive her but we are done, finshed, you will never get the chance to screw me over again.

I am a one and done girl, I will be your best friend, have your back, be your biggest supporter but you screw me and we are done!

 

We also think forgiveness  is avoiding confrontation, no, you are allowed to say your feelings, to confront them on their wrong doings, to tell them your mad, hurt, pissed as hell. You can be all of these things and speak them and then forgive and walk away.

 

Unforgiviness is a spirit of bondgage, that keeps you stagnant and stuck in that place of hurt and hate…

Forgiveness is a spirit of liberation that sets you free so that we can move on without hatred.

 

People think if I forgive them, I am giving them a pass on what they did,

 

No your not, your not saying it’s okay that you’ve done such a horrible thing, your acknowledging what they did, your speaking what they did, your not forgetting what they did but your releasing all the hate and anger you holding within you, you are setting yourself free.

 

So today my friends, is anger and hate holding you hostage? When you think of that person does your whole persona change?

Is all your time focused on hating them and hurting from what they did to you?

 

When they are living their lives without a care in the world, not thinking of you and what they did to you…see hating them has no effect on them…none what so ever …the only effect it has is on you…think about that… and then forgive and set your self free…

 

“What you can become depends on what you can overcome”

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

” And just when the moth thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Not to proud to ask for help

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Not to proud to ask for help

 

I never thought I would ever do this, I never thought I would be asking for help, yet I find myself in a situation that I have no other recourse but too do it.

 

This is a very embarrassing situation for me but as with all things that I share with you in honesty, I have a need to share this with you as well .

 

I have become a victim of a deceitful act from my closest and dearest friend, “my wifey”

Before any of you speak out against me for revealing this, ask yourself what you would do in my situation?

 

I recently lent my friend 1500.00 so that she could move into a new apartment with her new boyfriend and son.

There was a problem with her new bank account, she would lose the apartment and her deposit if she didn’t get the money, she said and it was under the agreement that the money was to be returned to me in 3 to 5 business days as soon as her bank fixed the problem.

 

I had an appointment set for the installation of a new Ac unit of which my friend was very aware of, so she knew I had the money.

 

Mind you she didn’t asked, she begged and pleaded and assured me that I would have the money returned in the time frame we had agreed upon.

 

Was it tight for me, yes, but I never imagined that I’d be dealing with a flight risk.

What I mean by that, is that once I showed up with the 2 cashier checks totalling the sum of 1500.00 to the apartment complex, to help her and her new boyfriend cover the expenses of the move in cost and then physically helped them moved in and unpack, I didn’t hear from her again.

 

The agreed upon interim of time had come and gone, not a phone call, not a word, no returned phone calls or texts. I literally had to hunt them down, only to eventually be met with a horrendous attitude as though I was intruding on her life. Gone were the crocodile tears of desperation replace with the attitude of what the fuck do you want.

 

As I stood there in the doorway,

I couldn’t belive she was saying this, I put her needs above my imeddiate well being of my family, by living with no air during one of the hottest parts of the year in South Florida.

 

Now I am standing in the hallway not invited into her home being made to feel like I am the bad guy here and all I want is answers to when I would be receiving my money. At every turn I was either met with avoidance or hostility.

 

My last appeal for my money between her and her boyfriend resulted in with her calling me a cunt, how’s that for friendship? She found it harassing that I was perusing any information about repayment.

 

It pains me to think about the nasty and bitter dialog that went on between myself, her and her boyfriend all due to the fact that she renegade on paying me back when she promised.

 

She knows my situation, that I am a single mom with 2 girls, hardly getting any child support, working 3 jobs just to pay the bills. Of course she knew, we talked every single day, she was my best friend, so how could she do this to me of all people. Who had that kind of money to gift to someone?

 

My girls and me are now without air conditioning,

I saved that money knowing my ac unit was on its last leg but being a good friend I am, I didn’t think I was making a bad decision by blessing someone else while going through my own hardships.

 

By no means was this a gift, it was a loan to my very best friend in her time of need and I believed her.

 

I have no one to run to, to beg, plead or borrow 1500.00 from.

So I humbly ask you  for whatever contributions that you can make so that I can restore a much needed air conditioning unit to my home as living conditions have become unbearable.

 

And so my cousin suggested I open up a go fund me account, which I have, so that I could possibly get help in getting this air conditioning unit.

 

Respectfully and eternally grateful….Fran Villardi

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

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You never know. ..

Hump day Treadmill Treats

 

Your never know..

 

It’s funny how we are as humans, we see someone and we right away make a judgment call on who they are. We see the outward picture and from that we think we got the whole picture of who they are and where they’ve been.

 

But we don’t know, we have no clue on who they are and what kind of life they have endured, yet we think by looking at them we do.

 

If we see someone all put together, we assume they had an easy life or if we see someone that is disheveled we automatically assume they are poor or had a rough life.

How off the mark we are, so many times, what you see is what they want you to see, a facade they put on for the world or maybe it took them many years of change to get to this position, we don’t know, yet we assume.

 

Last night I met a lovely women, she looked so put together, she was beautiful, well spoken and intelligent. She was a physician assistant and looking at her you would think she always had it together.

 

As we started talking and I happen to tell her I wrote a book and what it was about, she told me she wrote one as well and when she told me what she had gone through,that she  wrote about in her book, I was blown away.

 

She had such a horrible life, was homeless, put herself through school and so many other unspeakable things, that had happened to her along the way,

I stood there speechless.

 

My aunt use to say if we all put our problems on the table, we would be quick to take our own back and I have to tell you I thought I had a bad life, no I’d be taking my life, quick!

 

Looking at her I would have thought she was born with a silver spoon yet reality so so different from perception, isn’t it?

 

When people hear my testimony they are shocked how could I be so positive and happy?

We spoke of this last night and it’s how you look at life yes, you can say poor me, I went through. …..insert your sob story, hell, we all have one to insert but it’s what we do with what life deals us.

Are you bitter? Are you angry? Unforgiving? Do you use it as a cruch? Is it who you are, your identity?

 

Or have you learned  a lesson? Decided to forgive and move on? Have you decided, no matter what you will be positive and happy?

 

It’s all about we we do with the life we are handed. This women could have been bitter and angry and believe me she had every reason to, hell I was mad about what happened to her.

 

Yet she wasn’t, she changed her life around and in spite of all that happened she made an incredible life for herself and even managed to help others, unbelievably!

 

So today my friends remember it’s not all about what you see on the outside, don’t assume,

you never know what that person been through. Choose how you want to live your life, choose how you want your story to end no matter how it started, you may have not had a choice in the beginning but you sure as hell have a choice now.

You can change it, it’s never to late, your never to old…start today…change your life.

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

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Tuesday Treadmill Treats

 

Missing my dad…

 

Sometimes I can’t believe how fast time flys…it seems like yesterday when I was sitting in my mom’s kitchen asking my dad to make me his famous pancakes.

 

I can remember his laugh, his smile, his jokes, his games with money and who was on each bill and if I got it right I got to keep it.

 

I remember him driving up from the city every Sunday to see me, never missing a visit and even if it took him 4 hours to drive in a snowstorm to be there with me for Christmas morning, he did it.

 

I remember the trips into Manhattan, the restaurants and Broadway shows, the yearly Christmas and Easter shows watching the Rocketts dance at Radio city music Hall. I remember the smell of the leather in his car and how we would sing Tom Jones songs together.

 

I remember the day he dropped me off in town,he gave me ice cream money and told me he loved me and would see me next Sunday….I remember that would be the last time I saw his handsome face.

 

On the way home from seeing me he would have a heart attack in his car and would be gone at the early age of 45…it can’t possibly be 35 years already since that day, can it? Where did the time go?

 

There are times that I wish I could talk to him, things I wish he was here for…my graduation day…to walk walk me down the aisle at my wedding… to see his granddaughters being born…to comfort me as I  was getting divorced, to help me become a better mother and business women…so many times I wished he was here.

 

Yet even though he went home, he is still in my heart  and I still think of him all the time and miss him so…

 

But so many great things happen on this day as well reminding me that he is always here with me…

I signed the lease for my new home on this day, finally being free from my marriage, I sold my business on this day…and last year I got Baptist on this day…so I know he is looking down on me smiling, even if he is not here.

 

So today my friends, remember live is too short, you never know when in a heart beat, it will be gone. Heal old wounds…forgive the past, tell someone you love them, spend time with your parents before you have regrets that will last a lifetime. Before you know it you will be left here with olny your memories.

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

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Create a doubt free zone

Treadmill Treats Monday Message

 

Create a doubt free zone.

 

You have to believe in what you are praying about.

You need to get rid of doubt, get rid of people in your life who are doubting you.

 

You have to create a doubt free zone in your life, even against yourself. You have to tell yourself this will happen, this is going to come to pass and I have no doubt in my life.

 

When you ask God for something you must believe and not doubt him…

If he did it before he will do it again.

Doubt is an uncertainty, a lack of conviction,

NO matter what, even if it seems impossible, you believe it can and will happen.

 

See here’s the thing, think about what are you reading, what are you watching? Who is in your circle?

All these things effect your belief, if your hanging out with non believers, negative people, what do you think they are going to say about your dreams?

 

“Hey, Get real, how long have you’ve been waiting? It’s never going to happen, that’s impossible, please,  that can’t happen, have you looked at your life? Nothing good happens to you, your poor,uneducated, fill in the blanks….. things like that don’t happen to people like us”

 

So you start to doubt…

“Well maybe he’s right…maybe I am dreaming, maybe I should give up”

What are you feeding your soul? Doubt, worry, 1/2 belief, maybes… no! You need to know for sure that it will happen beyond a shadow of a doubt.

 

But your thinking my life is crazy, everything that can go wrong is going wrong… Are you at a time in your life that the enemy turning up the pressure?

 

Is everything coming after you at once? Is your world going crazy? This is when your faith will be tested.

Even through the fire…will you believe? No matter how impossible it may look. Keep saying I believe..even in broken pieces… I believe, even through the fire, I believe!

 

These small problems are nothing to God, do you not believe in the miracles he can work? Have you not seen the impossible he made possible? Yet you still doubt?

 

In the bible it says “All things are possible

For thoese who believe, it will happen…it will be done for him…

For he is a man of his word he cannot lie”

 

Even when it seems impossible, yet you know in your soul, it will happen.

There are things you will tell people and they will laugh at you, you need to put some people out of your life.

 

I had alot of people laugh at me when I say I am going to be a New York Times bestselling author, that I will have an international blog, that I will be on Oprah super soul Sunday, that Tyler Perry will produce my movie, they think I have lost my mind, “Ha like that will ever happen” they say. “How long have you’ve been waiting for it?”

 

But I dont listen, over and over I put it out there, over and over I speak it into the atmosphere, it’s on my vision board, it’s in my blogs, I believe it will happen like I know I am breathing, I have no doubt, I know it, feel it, breathe it, imagine it as if it has already happened! This is my doubt free zone.

 

I believe in my God for these things, yes, they are big but why dream small? My God can make anything happen…this is a piece of cake for him…it’s all on me…do I have faith? Do I have doubt? He is waiting on your faith to be activated to give you the blessing.

 

So today my friends, get rid of the people in your life who are doubting, the nah sayers, the haters, not everyone is supposed to come along for the ride.

(A big lesson I learned this year with a bunch of “friends”)

 

Cut them off, delete them, put them out…this is your doubt free zone… never doubt the miracles he can and will do for you…if you believe….

** Come into The doubt free zone**

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

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You just never know. . .

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Your just never know…

 

I read a post on Facebook the other day about suicide, it went something like the day I killed myself… I fell in love, I got that great promotion, my life changed.

 

I also preach that tomorrow can change your whole life, yes, you might be in a dark place right now, but everything can change in a instant!

 

People are so scared to ask for help, they feel so alone, they think no one understands what they are going through so they shut out the world and in that shut off world, it seems worst.

 

People ask me all the time how do you put all your business out there, I have no secrets, there are no skeletons in my closet, I am not afraid of the truth coming out, it’s out there and guess what? I am still here, still standing!

 

We all need to stop pretending that everything is perfect, that we are super people, not we aren’t all not hurt and broken, we all are. The sooner we start speaking the truth, the sooner we will be able to heal and help others heal as well.

 

It is human…we screw up, we fall down, we learn lessons, that is what we are supposed to do, why do we make it such a flaw? Such a character defect to be human?

 

How are we supposed to learn? How are we supposed to find the strength inside of us if we are so busy lying to the world about being perfect?

 

I lived “the I am perfect to the outside world” for so many years as I was dying on the inside. Yes, it looked like I had it all, nice house, fancy cars, lots of toys, a great marriage and kids…

All a facade, all a lie I was telling the world, showing them because I was afraid of the truth. I was in a verbally abusive marriage, my kids were acting out, I was misrable and I hated myself and my life to the point that I wanted to end it all….I know that pain, I know what the lies cost, it almost cost me my life.

 

But I never could see all the amazing things that would  happen to me. I would have missed this life I am now blessed with, if I had done it.

 

So today my friends, think about this…what are we teaching the next generation?  If your not perfect, your not worthy. No, we need to admit our mistakes, our failures, our pain.

We need to share the things that didn’t kill us but made us stronger. We have to open the closet doors and show others that the truth will set you free and that tomorrow….. well you never know what an incredible thing could happen to you tomorrow, if you give up.

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

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My vision board. …

Thursday Treadmill Treats

 

My vision board….

 

I just received one of thoese post in Facebook about see your memories, I love these, you forgot how fast time flies by and these posts remind you of different times in your life that you might have otherwise forgotten.

 

My remember when posts this week were about my trip to Greece last year for my 50th birthday with my very best friend.

As I’ve been looking at these incredible pictures of my trip of a lifetime, I started thinking about all the things on my vision board that have also come to pass.

 

I thought about the marathon and triathlon I had up there, about my new home, about the trip to Greece, about peace and joy that I put all over these boards, that I now have in abundance.

 

I think about my book, which at the time was just a dream, now is a reality and doing well.

I think about the feelings that I put on there so long ago, confidence, strength, blessings, all of which I now possess.

 

This week really reinforced my belief in putting your intentions out there, as if I didn’t know it worked before this…Hello!

 

I recently got a new client, she is the sweetest women who like the rest of us needed some help in getting her life in order.

If you know me I talk alot, I love people and love to get to know them. So as we were working I happened to find a Tony Robbins CD, I said to her how much I loved him and that my next bucket list thing to do was his 3 day course where you walk on fire. I figured I’ve walked through fire I might as well walk on fire!

She told me she and her son had done it and it was incredible. We talked about it for a while longer as we worked together and then I forgot about it.

 

This week I get a text from her saying that she wanted to bless me with a trip to see….yup you guessed it Tony Robbins and his 3 day seminar!  I almost fell off my chair, was she kidding?  No, she was so happy with me getting her life together she wanted to do this for me. She wanted to bless me!

 

Hello! This was on my vision board, I knew one day it would happen but not anytime soon as it is a very, very expensive seminar and I definitely couldn’t afford it anytime soon.

 

Hello! It wasn’t even in my radar, my roof is leaking, my ex is taking me to court, my air conditioning is dead and my money for it is gone with a so called friend, no there is definitely no money for a wish list dream, no this was a big one day…dream. But even going through all of that, I have still been grateful, I have still been praying through the storm and I knew things will get better.

 

Yet, here it was… my intention that I put out there 3 years ago, my bucket list thing I spoke of all the time, giving to me??

You put it out there and it comes back to you see how that works…I say, almost sounding surprised myself.

 

God and the universe can do amazing things if you believe! I always thought I would have to save to be able to get to go, never did I imagine that it would be gifted to me!

Just like I never imagined that I would be owning my own home, that too was a gift from God. Yet all these amazing things and so much more that I put out there, put up there, have come to pass.

 

So today my friends, get that vision board out, cut out all that you wish for, even for the things you think are impossible, so far fetched you couldn’t possibly imagine them happening, then look at it every day, picture it in your mind, feel as if your there, close your eyes, imagine…be there…feel it… every day believe that this, all of this will happen and one day it will, all of it and more….

 

“I am a New York Times bestselling author, I have a international blog, I am on Lousie Hayes tour, Oprah had me on Super soul Sunday and Tyler Perry is making and producing my movie about my book”

 

Just practicing for my next miracle….are you?

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

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Love is all you need

Tuesday Treadmill Treats

 

Love is all you need

 

Love is one thing we owe to people.

Love is the greatest gift we have and the greatest gift we can share.

 

Some people are dressed up, with clothes they haven’t paid for, with hatred in their hearts, they are miserable, they have no love in their hearts.

Yet they go around and preach the bible and their faith, when the truth is God said love is the greatest thing.

Yet it is the one thing they do not have in their hearts.

 

Sometimes you are hurt, sometimes people will cut you to the bone and you are full of hatred. You can’t see the lessons life is trying to teach you because you are blinded by hate.

 

I could have hated the man who raped me, I could have hated my ex husband for the years of verbally abusing me but instead I forgave them, I could hate my “so called friends” who did me wrong, but instead I pray for them, I love them because they are God’s children and I can not move on and get my blessings until I forgive and love them.

 

Was it easy at first? Oh, hell no! Why should I love them? What kind of love did they show me? Forgive them really? Why do they deserve it? Did they ever once try to say they were sorry for the pain they caused me? No, not once, so why should I?

Because it is for you not them,

it doesn’t matter if they are sorry, God says you must love, even your enemies.

 

Love teaches you that you can let it go, so that when you see your ex with another, you know you are over it, you know who you are and who’s you are, you know what that other person has, you’ve been there and you no longer ever want to go back!

You need to pray for the new person in their lives as you know the pain that is coming their way, sooner or later.

 

I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received, be humble, be gentle and be patient. Do not hold onto anger and hatred, let it go, cleanse your heart, move on, forgive and put love in its place.

 

Love everyone but choose your friends wisely, that means you don’t have to have negative, hateful, lying people in your life, you can still love them, from a far…

 

Remeber that forgiveness is the oxygen that keeps your relationships alive, it keeps you alive.

 

My grandmother had such hatred and a unforgiving heart her whole life, It made her miserable, it literally sucked the life out of her and when she was around it sucked the life out of everyone around her as well. I chose not to be like her, I will forgive and then walk away.

 

So today my friends, remember love makes the world go around, love is a many splendid thing, love is the only thing worth living for, love will fix you, love will fix others, love is God’s greatest gift to us, cherish it, use it often and freely and never forget it.

 

Be the change you want to see”

 

***Now available***

My new book The blessing in Disguise

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Www.treadmilltreats.com

 

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