Part 2 Our trip to Asheville North Carolina, Living in the moment always

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Part 2 Our trip to Asheville North Carolina, Living in the moment always

 

This last week was a trip to say the least. I love my girls, they can make me laugh like no one else and we can get on each other’s  nerves yet still be able to hug and kiss each other a minute later.

 

This week was no different as we started out our vacation with a hike to see Looking Glass rock. We hiked all the time in New York, so we thought we got this or so we thought.

 

Most of the state parks tell you how long the trail is and what difficulty level it is. Well this one said nothing and so we thought okay then it cant be so bad right? Wrong! Dead wrong!

This was like the hike from hell… except we found out hell is really up hill!!

 

This was no Beginners trail, where the hell was the signs warning us?

I had just got over 5 days in bed from the flu and a cold that left me half dead.Hiking up hill, it felt like my lungs were on fire and my legs were screaming as I haven’t been to the gym since before my walk on fire two weeks before. But I would rather die than admit defeat so I trudged on feeling like I was 90!

 

2 hours into it I am like a five year old asking everyone we past coming downhill “Are we there yet?”

And somehow I am getting the same answers I got 30 minutes before, an hour before…” A little further”

The New Yorker in me wants to scream

“You lying Sob!” But we are in the south and I dont want them to to say “See them New Yorkers, just like we thought, rude as all get out…bless their hearts” Yeah.. we know what that means, a nice way to tell us to piss off!

 

I keep going, I am not going to quit and never hear the end of it from my kids. Oh you dont know them, I would never live it down. No, I will do this as I tell myself “Bitch you just walked on fire, you got this!”

 

2 1/2 hours after we started out my lungs have been exploded, my ankles  are rubbed raw as I didnt wear the right socks, my calfs are crying mommy and I am soaking wet even though its 50 degrees but we finally got to the top Looking Glass rock.

4000 feet above North Carolina with a view that made us and everyone else who finally reached the top say “Wow”

 

To say it was spectacular would be an understatement, it was a breathtaking view of all of Gods glory, the mountains, the trees, the birds. The clouds looked like that were so close that you could touch them. Sitting up there made you feel small, made you and your problems feel insignificant, this is what life is about….our beautiful county, nature, being close to God, knowing whats really important….life and love and at this moment I had both….

 

We were all speechless thinking about what life is all about…. its about living in the moment, its about laughing when your in pain and dont think you can go on. Its about people you love and enjoy spending time with, its about the things money will never buy you, peace and joy.

 

Yes, all the pain was worth this moment to be truly grateful that I actually did it and I got to share this  moment with my girls and my loved ones.

 

We sat up there for quite a while taking it all in and then we made our way back down with a spring in our step, all impressed that we made this 12 mile hike and knowing that anything is possible if you believe….

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Our trip to Asheville North Carolina, Living in the moment always

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Our trip to Asheville North Carolina, Living in the moment… always

 

This last week I blessed to be giving a house to use during spring break with my girls in Asheville, North Carolina. It was from another one of my wonderful clients.

 

We love the mountains and the outdoors and was thrilled to be able to get away.

We rented a van, packed up all of our crap and we were off on a road trip. We had my 2 girls, my oldest daughter’s boyfriend and my little ones best friend and of course me.

We laughed, we sang loud and off key, we watched movies, ate bad snacks, we told stories and basically had a great time just being together.

 

Even with the traffic, the weather and being 3 hours behind schedule we were still happy. When we finally arrived at 7 am to our surprise there was a truck in the driveway. We all turn and look at each other who could that be? Were we at the wrong house? Until I saw who was getting out of thr truck, it was the friend of mine who had taken me on the cruise. As I stood there with my mouth open, the girls were already saying dam he drove 11 hours to surprise you! We found out he was sitting there for another 5 hours because we were late…I was blown away, who does that?

 

Absolutely someone who wants to see you…and this is how we started off our week of adventure.

 

I am constantly saying you must live in the moment, this was a last minute offer to us that we took, it was perfect timing with spring break, my friend also lived in the moment, deciding to come and surprise me. Life is to short not to enjoy every moment, every blessing that falls into your lap, every opportunity that will bring you happiness, grab it, hold on, enjoy it, live for the moment!

 

Its not about all the stuff or the fancy places, its about being with the ones you love, enjoying them and making memories that will laugh a lifetime!

Live in the moment always!

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Being grateful even for being sick

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Being grateful even for being sick

 

After such an incredible weekend and being able to to finally do what I had put on my vision board so many years ago, going to Tony Robbins walk on fire seminar and then actually  walking on fire, it was life changing.

 

Being there for 15 hours a day, yelling, screaming, jumping, hardly any food as you were so caught up in the moment, in this freezing cold room where you beared your soul to strangers for 4 days really ran me down.

 

I had been on this roller-coaster of go, go, go for the last month, working 12 hour days, 6 days a week, then I went on a cruise which I stayed up late every night and partied. I was off my schedule of eating right and exercising every day and getting to sleep 8 hours a night.

 

Going from that right into this seminar knocked me for a loop, I came home sick, so sick that I couldn’t get out of bed for 5 days, that’s how bad it was.

 

Some people would think you took 3 steps forward and 5 steps back, or that you were such a high and now you crashed.

 

It’s all how you look at things, some people would look at this week in bed and think wow, look I can’t even stay well enough to put into effect what I’ve learned, or be worried about paying the bills (I am a single mom with no other income)

 

They would go back to the why me mentality, poor me,  this always happens to me.They would stress about things they could not change. They would make it about something that it wasn’t.

 

But I took this time to reflect on what I learned, to be grateful that it was only a flu and not a life changing illness. I was grateful for the many other things I have in my life and that how lucky I was to have been blessed with this incredible gift.

 

I envisioned every day what my life will look like, even more so than usual as I had so much time in bed. I prayed for alot of people, I got to write and watch TV something I never do.

 

Did it suck? Of course it did, I hate to be sick, I am always up moving and doing, I got bills hello, I am like you, but instead of looking at the negative I chose to focus on the positive.

 

Maybe I needed to recharge, maybe I opened  up so much and took in so much of others energy in, maybe I needed to take better care of myself and not go into I am out of gas.

 

I am not a victim in my life, things will happen to you that will suck but that doesn’t mean it will be forever or that it always happens to you, let go of that mentality.

 

So yes, my friends even when bad things are happening to you, even when you get knocked down yet again, even when it feels like your taking 2 steps forward to take 4 steps back, be grateful for all you already have and know….the sun will come out tomorrow….bet your bottom dollar that tomorrow there be sun…The sun will come out tomorrow. ……let’s all sing together!

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Once you’re found your peace you never want to let it go

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Once you’ve found your peace you never want to let it go

 

It took me along time to get to this space I am in now. For years I didn’t like myself, I hated my life and I was unhappy.

 

I learned to take time out for me, to let go of the stuff I couldn’t change and to find inner peace and joy. Let me tell you when you get to a place where you find it and something happens where your peace is disturbed, you feel it right away, there is an uneasiness that fills you, you start to worry about things, you feel off balanced and unsettled just like how I use to feel in the past.

 

I don’t ever want to go back to the days of darkness, where I couldn’t see the sun, where I couldn’t find things to smile about and where I hated my life and myself, no there will not be a return visit for me.

 

Each and every day I wake up, I chose to be happy,

I chose to be grateful,

I chose to see the world through rose colored glasses, it is a choice, my choice and I chose to have peace in my life.

 

I have girlfriends that have drama in their lives, every day they want to drag me into their drama, I love you but unless you choose to change then you must like the situation you are in. How many times do you need to go through the same stuff expecting different results? Its called insanity!

 

I chose not to hang out with negative people, they suck all the life out of you. I want to surround myself with people who are positive, happy and love life, even with all the ups and downs!

 

Life is a choice, there are choices every day, you chose not to do drugs, steal, hurt people, cheat, be miserable, these are choices you make every day. We live in the greatest country in the world, a country that allows you to chose, how great is that? So when it took me so very long to get to a place of peacefulness, every dark night, every tear, every cry to God for help was worth it as I have found a place in my life that is so incredible that even as a writer, I have no words to describe this feeling!

 

When I was getting sucked into the drama that was my life for those few months, I realized just how much I needed my peace, I felt I was swimming up stream against the current, fighting just to catch my breathe, who wants to live like that?

 

So today my friends ask yourself are you living like that? Is each day a struggle? Are you surrounded with negative people? Are you caught up in drama filled life?

 

You need to chose to step out and step up to a better life, this is your life people and you only get one trip, why spend it worried, anxious, hateful, miserable. Isn’t better to feel peace and joy, gratefulness, forgiveness and be with one with God and the universe? So today is a new day, erase the past, start over, wake up and chose!!

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Part 3 What I learned from Tony Robbins

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Part 3 what I learned from Tony Robbins

 

Yes, I know I am a day off but yesterday I was down for the count, I couldn’t move, I couldn’t talk, I barely ate….physical and psychological overload.

 

So not to miss a day I will continue as if it was Tuesday…play along.

 

One of the most important things I’ve learned from this four day event is, (there were so many of them so I will highlight the main ones)

That “Proximity is power” as Tony says, if you want to be successful you need to align yourself with successful people.

 

People are a direct reflection of the expectations of their peers groups. Who you spend time with is who you become. Love your family, choose your peers, find a peer group above you!

 

This is the olny way you are going to grow, learn from others mistakes, listen to their wisdom, open your mind and learn.

 

“Certainty is created within you not by your environment” Tony Robbins

 

There are things you can do to change your life

 

1- Change yourself

 

2- Live in either a beautiful state or a suffering state

 

3- Change your state, by changing your physiology…breaking through the fear

 

You choose all of these things in life, you choose to change, you choose to live in a suffering state by saying oh poor me, nothing good ever happens to me, I am too old, not smart enough, not good enough.

 

Or you choose to live in a beautiful state by saying I am blessed, I am happy, I am good enough, I can do this, I live in a state of gratefulness.

Or you choose to live in fear always afraid of the unknown, of failing, of ridicule whatever is it is your stuck in a place of fear.

 

This is all you, you cant blame it on your upbring, your lack of education, your horrible past, see we all have these things in our past as well ……insert your sob story here……

 

Sorry to sound so cold but it’s true it’s either you are your past or the past is you or the past is part of your past, it doesn’t define who you are, the choice is yours.

 

So today my friends, remember in order to become successful start hanging out with successful people, in order to change yourself, step up and put yourself in a beautiful state, live your life that way.

The first step is up to you.

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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What I learned from Tony Robbins Walk on fire seminar part 2

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What I learned from Tony Robbins Walk on Fire seminar part 2

 

If you’ve been keeping up with my blog you know I came to Tony Robbins Walk on fire 4 day seminar.

 

I can not explain how this has changed my life, in so many ways. I learned more about myself, my goals and dreams. I learned I can push myself beyond humanly possible, that I can overcome any of my fears, that I can change my thoughts in “a heart beat” as Tony says.

That it’s up to you how you want to live your life.

 

So for the next week I want to share with you some of the basic lessons I’ve learned.

 

Saying this, I want you all to know nothing is like actually being there and immersing yourself in his knowledge but maybe I can get you hyped up enough to take that first step to change.

 

The first day we learned that there are 6 human needs:

 

1- Certainty

 

2- Uncertainty (Variety)

 

3- Significance ( How you feel in life or someone’s life )

 

4- Love and connection

(Do you feel loved? Is there a connection? )

 

5- Growth (Are you continuing to grow and learn?)

 

6- Contribution (to life and the world)

 

See every person finds ways to meet these needs in either postive or negative ways but no matter what they find a way to get these needs met in some way.

 

We also learned that there are 2 things that make us change, these 2 things are:

1- Pleasure

2- Pain

 

But in order for change you must know that for lasting change, you need to have these 3 beliefs:

 

1- This must change now

2- I must change this now

3- I can change now

 

The past does not equal the future…unless you live there. You can change anything in your life if you want to.

 

You get to this point by saying enough is enough. That you are sick and tired of being sick and tired! That you need change because you realize this is not working for you any more.

So for the ultimate success you need a formula:

 

1-Know your outcome- (Clarity is power!)

2-Know your reasons-

(Why is this a must!)

3- Know what your getting (How is this going to change my life)

4- Change your approach

(You obviously need to do something different)

 

Here’s the thing you first need to admit is what is it that you need to change, in whatever area in your life.

 

You must step up and own it, you must be willing to change and you must do whatever it takes to make that happen.

 

Believe me I know, I lived in fear, fear ruled my life. I was stuck in this horrible place not willing to move because fear gripped me and I was so afraid of the unknown that I was willing to settle for horrible.

 

It wasn’t until I said enough is enough that I changed my life. That I overcame my fears and walked out on faith, realizing that anything had to be better than living the way I was living.

 

So today my friends, remember it’s up to you to take the first step, you need to say enough is enough, you need to change your fear for strength.

 

I am no different than any of you, I am no better. I just decided I was going to take MY life into MY hands and make the change to be happy.

 

I walked on fire because I believed I could do it and nothing or no one was going to say I couldn’t, only I could hold me back!

Step up, step forward, say you want to change, you need to change and then do it!

Nothing is impossible if you believe!

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Today I will walk on fire

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Today I walk on fire

 

If you read my blog or my book, you know I have been through some shit in my life. Sometimes I wonder how I survived, but God…

 

I always feel I am a survivor, that no matter what life throws at me I will overcome it, I feel like I have walked through fire and come out like the Phoenix reborn into something bigger and better!

 

I am always telling you that all that you want you can achieve, all you need to do is put it out there and believe.

 

Yes, I do practice what I preach. I have made a vision board every year since 2008. Even in that horrible verbally abusive  marriage, I kept one in my garage over my washer and dryer. Every day as I washed and folded clothes I would stare at it, I would envision my life the way I wanted it, I put pictures of what my home would look like when I was finally free. Places I would go, the feelings I would feel, like gratefulness and peace and joy. I never once stopped believing and guess what all of those things happened!

 

I went to Greece, I started my own business, I bought my own home, I did a triathlon, I jumped out of a plane…I did everything on that vision board because I believed I could do it.

 

So when I started my bucket list, way back when, I put on there,Tony Robbins walk on fire seminar.

It was symbolism to me,

I knew I had been though the fire and I wanted to show myself and my readers that anything is possible.

 

Being a single mom and knowing how expensive this was, I knew it would be a long time for me to able to do this. But I kept it on my vision board and kept believing that it would happen.

 

A few months ago I meet a client and while I was organizating her home I found a bunch of books from Tony Robbins. We started talking about him and my vision board.

Two weeks later she called me and told me she wanted to bless me and she had purchase tickets for me.

 

I was so speechless I cried. Yes, I put it out there, I believed and now it was coming to pass, just like so many other things on my vision board!

 

There is no dream too big, nothing is impossible if you believe, I am living proof of that.

 

So when you constantly see me saying I will be a New York Times bestselling author, that I will have an international blog, that I will be on the Women of Faith tour as a motivational speaker.

 

That I will be on Oprah Super Soul Sunday and that  Tyler Perry will produce my life story, you can laugh all you want, but I am believing for all that and more, it’s never too late, your never to old, it’s never to big of dream to dream!

 

All you have to do is believe and look at that….

Thursday I will be walking on fire

Ha!! I have walked through fire and now I will be walking on fire!!

 

NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE IF YOU BELIEVE! !

 

Live large, laugh often, love with all your heart, dream big!

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

***Now available***

My new book The blessing in Disguise

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March has significant meaning to me

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March has significant meaning to me

 

Life is so short and time flies by so fast sometimes we lost track of time and how many years this or that happened in our lives.

 

Well, thank God for Facebook and their reminders of what you were doing a year, two years even three years ago to keep you updated.

 

It was because of those reminders that I realized that March was so significant to me.

Dont get me wrong, I remembered all of these events but didn’t realize that they all happened in the same week in March.

 

I sit here and laugh as I think back over my life in these last 4 years since I was separated and then divorced.

 

I realized that in March this last week, 3 years ago, Stella got her Groove back. I went out with someone I had the biggest crush on while I was in high school, 1st time I was with another man in 24 years.Talk about scary! But I needed to know I was still desirable, that I was wanted, that I still had it. Hey, after a loveless, fake ass marriage, a women needs to feel that, let’s be real here.

 

Well that’s one thing you can always count on me to be, is real!

Anyway it turned out to be an incredible experience, one I will never forget and even though it didn’t work out the way I wanted it to, we are still great friends until this day. He helped me grow and start my journey and I am forever grateful for all he taught me.

 

A year later I met Mr.Con Artist and found out he was lying and cheating and threw him to the curb  (literally) Yes, that also happened this week two years ago! I remember reading all I wrote at the time, all the pain I was in, how devastating it was because he knew me since we were 12 and he knew all the hurt I had endured in my life and still took advantage of all of that.

 

I didn’t date for a year, he cured me of that.

But I thank him as well because he also taught me so many lessons and I got to teach my girls, thoese lessons, like never to stand for a lying, cheating man, it’s a one shot deal with me you cheat and lie, we’re done!

 

After that year of retrospect I started talking to my high school sweetheart again. I had just bought and remodeled a new home and I was fried.

I was emotionally, physically and financially wiped out and when he suggested I come home to New York to spend a few days of down time I was ready.

 

This was a full circle, unreal  moment for me as I could remember for years sitting in my tub every night with my wine and my sleeping pills, crying myself into a drunken stupor praying my ex husband would be asleep when I finally stumbled out of the tub.

 

And here I was in my high school sweethearts bathtub, that he filled for me, with coffee he brought me, telling me breakfast would be ready soon. I had dreamed of this moment for so many years and now I was living it, it so surreal it brought me to tears.

 

It was the most incredible weekend of my life but I learned yet another lesson as much as you might want to go back, sometimes the problems that were there the first time around are still the stumbling blocks today. He will always hold my heart and I am so grateful for that weekend but I realized it could never be again.

 

So while I was reading all of these events that happened in March, I was on a cruise in Mexico. Talk about an interesting month!

 

I have learned a lot of lessons to get to this point,

I had a lot of tears and alot of laughs, I had some heartbreaking moments and some life changing moments as well.

 

I am at a place of peace now, I am good with me and know my own worth.

I know that I am a survivor,  and that I am okay.

 

I am ready to open my heart to someone and not bring the sins of the past into it, I have learned valuable lessons from each of these people. Lessons that taught me about me, lessons that let me grow into who I am now.

 

So today my friends, I will forever reflect on March as my most incredible learning month and I will give thanks for all that gave me those lessons.

I can not wait until next year’s March…you never know what will happen if you believe!

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

***Now available***

My new book The blessing in Disguise

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The things you take for granted, someone else is praying for

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The things you take for granted, someone else is praying for

 

We never appreciate what we have until it’s gone, yes, that is so true. You think the grass is always greener on the other side, you cant have a testimony unless you have a test, how do you know how far you can actually go, until you are tested?

 

Yes, so many people are like this out there, they have no concept of what is right in front of them.

They are constantly looking at what others have…”oh look, they have the bigger house, I want that”

 

“Oh, I am sick of my man,

I know their is someone better out there, I want a new one”

 

“Oh, look at her she has all those expensive shoes and bags, must be nice, I want that, why can’t that be me?”

 

Oh, yes, so many people are envious and jealous of what others have, that they have no idea how truly blessed they are. They will throw it all away to search after that “pot of gold” at the end of rainbow, not realizing that the gold they were seeking was already right under their noses or that all that you see isn’t gold at all.

 

Yes, that big house may be beautiful but the wife cries herself to sleep in there every night.Their is no love, it is just a house not a home.

 

That women with the expensive bags and shoes can’t sleep at night because bill collectors are calling every day, she has a empty soul that she is constantly trying to fill with “things”

She looks good on the outside but is a mess on the inside.

 

That man that you no longer “love” someone else appreciates his worth and sees what a great man he is, they see what you have taken for granted, for so many years.

 

It is not until then that you realize what you use to have and now want it back, but it is to late, you have destroyed it by seeking something “better”

 

There will never be anything better, you will never be satisfied, you will constantly keep searching for the next “thing” to make you happy. You will never find it because you are incomplete, your soul is empty and you are broken and until you fix yourself, until you realize that you have to be happy within, all of that, will never make you happy.

 

You will continue to go on hurting people because they moved on, changed and grew and you will never realize that it is you… you that are blocking your own blessings.

 

You will continue to blame everyone and never take responsibility for your actions, you will never admit your wrong doing and in that you will never learn the lessons, you will never grow and change. You will be stuck in your unsatisfied life, always wanting more, always seeking the next big thing.

 

You will never be satisfied, because if you can’t be happy or grateful for what you have now, what makes you think you’ll be grateful for something else?

 

So today my friends remember the thing your not grateful for is the very thing someone else is praying for.

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

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Is there really a prince charming out there?

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Is there really a prince charming out there?

 

I write all the time about being Tinker bell, believing in happily ever afters, finding Mr.Prince Charming  and yes, I truly believe that but…

Yes, we all have that but…

Even I, Miss Postive have buts.. I am human after all.

 

But is he really out there?  And if he is, will I able to spot the real one from the phony one?

If you read my blog you know I have a lousy picker so how would I know? Can I trust myself not to get suckered again?

 

Can I truly opened my heart up yet again with a chance that it will get stomped on? It’s a scary situation, for so many of us that have been hurt and betrayed, can you really trust again?

 

When you met a guy who is sweet, kind, funny, romantic you think…ok…when’s the other shoe going to drop?….

When is the crazy going to come out?…. What does he really want?…

 

Pretty crappie thinking huh?

Yes, it is but sometimes you can’t help but to think that because there are so many “bad” guys out there we start to think they are all like that.

 

But I am here to tell you, there are some really great guys out there, guys who really are kind, sweet. Guys who will put your feelings above their own, guys who listen and put 100 % into a relationship.

Imagine that? Yes, how do  I know this? Because I know really good men like this, great guys out there looking for their queen, thinking “she’s not out there”

 

But we are still scared, we

think what if I repeat the sins of the past? What if I open up, can I take another broken heart? Can I survive  the pain again?

Yet, living without love is not living…

 

We need love like we need air, we need that human touch, we were meant to  be with someone, God created Adam and Eve, not Adam by himself…we need to learn to let go of our fears, we need to learn not to blame the sins of another on the next one.

 

We need to knock down the walls we built around our hearts and let someone in.

We need to give all of ourselves, not hold anything back because of fear.

Fear will make you miss out on so many things, it will close your heart and make you misrable.

 

So today my friends, remember your prince is out there, your queen is out there…you never know they might be closer than you think… they might be your friend, an old love or someone you never thought of, but if your not open you will miss your chance at happiness.

 

Be happy, laugh often, live large, love big! Life is too short, take the chance, step out of your box…you never know…

 

“Be the change you want to see”

 

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

 

***Now available***

My new book The blessing in Disguise

Selling on my website:

 

Www.treadmilltreats.com

 

And on Amazon.com

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