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Actions speak louder than words
I am a true believer in this, your actions speak louder than your words, this can be used in all aspects of your life.
In your job, when your working overtime, your putting in 100%, giving it your all, you might occasional get a “good job” but no raise, no bonus for all of your hard work. How does that make you feel?
Like they don’t really appreciate all that your doing.
What about when it comes to friends, when you call someone up to tell them your stuck at the airport and they say “Wow, that sucks” but never step up to offer to help you….
Or someone who says they are your friend but when things get rough, they vanish, or you feel like you are always bowing down to them and their needs.
How about relationships? How many times have we’ve all been in one where they say they are going to call and don’t?
Or they say they care yet they can’t find a minute to text you to let you know your on their mind.
And we’ve all had the one person that only seems to remember who you are when it was booty time….
Come on your laughing but you know it’s true…
That person that tells you they want something with you but only seems to call you at 11 o’clock at night to get some…ahhh so many women fall for that one.
Yes…actions speak louder than words….
You can tell someone you love them a million times but if your treating them like shit, there is no love.
You can tell someone your their friend but if you don’t step up in a time of need, are you really a friend?
You can say you care about someone but if you constantly do things you know hurt that other person…how can you really care?
You can say you want a relationship but when your not putting in any time to make it grow, do you really? Or are you just blowing smoke up someone’s ass? Come on people let’s be real here.
People throw around words all too often, yet fail to back up those words. I know I use to say my “best friends” a lot but I’ve come to realize not everyone is entitled to that title, you must earn that title, you must be there through thick and thin, you must show that you are the “best” in order to be called the best.
I have had the same friends for 40 years…
40 years that tells you something about the kind of friend I am.
When I apply for a job I ask the boss how long have people worked for you? Why? Because that tells me if your a good boss or not, if you have long term employees, your doing something right, if every few months your overturning your staff…yeah… not so good.
Use this in real life, how many relationships does a person go through that only last 3 months, six months or friendships for that matter, why do you all of a sudden have friends then don’t have them?
Your turn over rate is constantly running.
That says something about who you are, you can say all you want but yet again your actions speak louder than your words.
So today my friends remember, you can say all you want, that your a friend, that you care about someone, that you want a relationship, yada, yada, yada….
Talk is cheap… What really counts, what really means anything at all is your actions….because believe me your actions speak louder than your words and we are listening.
“Be the change you want to see”
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