Who are you allowing to contol your happiness?

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Who are you allowing to control your happiness?


We see it all time rich and famous people who are unhappy. They have it all or so it seems but they are out of control, they are mean or they are misrable.


You’d think if that “Oh if I had all that money, I’d be happy” but does money really make you happy?


Ever heard of the saying the bigger the money, the bigger the problems…

Remember to much is given, much is required.


You have to learn this, way before you are blessed enough to have money.

You have to know that your happiness comes from within, from your higher source, whatever that may be.


Is it in the joy in your life that you get your strength?

Is it in knowing that if all your stuff suddenly would be gone tomorrow, you would still be good, you would still be happy or is it connected to the “things” that you have?


How many people have all of “that” are still lonely? How many people are still unhappy? Believe me I know, I had the big lifestyle yet every night I cried myself to sleep.


Are you trying to impress others with your things? Are you trying to cover up your pain with a fancy coat of lies? Yes, I know of all of that but I was still so unhappy.


I remember when my Bishop said do something you love and it wont feel like work.

I listened and everyday I do what I love to do, I get to write this blog, I get to help people get their lives together.


I am blessed to have the most wonderful clients, I go to work with a smile on my face and each and every day, I am so grateful that I get to do what I love.


Am I in the big house? Do I drive the fancy car? Do I have the toys or big vacations or designer bags that I use to have? No, I have none of that anymore but I haveĀ  peace and joy, I am happy with myself and with what I do have now and that my friends is priceless.


I do not allow what others think of me control my happiness, that is their problem, not mine.

I have realized not everyone is along for the whole ride and that’s okay.


I do not allow a man to control my happiness, I will continue to be happy with or without one.

I do not allow haters to control my happiness, there will always be haters, I am doing me like it or not, I do not care.

I will not allow material things to control my happiness, I know that even without I am still happy.

See I am in control of my life, of my happiness, of my joy…

I chose to be in this state, I chose to be grateful, to not deal with drama, to let go of things and people that are not good for me because this is my life and I only get one go at it and I am doing it my way!


So today my friends, remember the only way you will find satisfaction is in the fact that your good with yourself, you will find satisfaction and love in the things you do and the things you do for others.


It is an inward state of mind, if you have that, no one can take that away from you. You get to chose, you allow what effects you…

Own your own happiness!


“Be the change you want to see”


“And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”


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