Tony Robbins and the #MeToo movement

Tony Robbins and #MeToo movement

Last week my cousin posted a video of Tony Robbins at his latest convention talking about the #MeToo movement.
Her quote to me was “So what do you got to say about your boy now”

She knows that I am one of Tony Robbins biggest fans and she wanted to know my opinion about this whole situation, because not only am I his biggest fan but also an advocate for rape and sexual abuse.

So here is my response on both sides of this subject and in case you’ve been living under a rock, this is what conspired this last week.

In the video,Tony Robbins argued with a woman at his workshop who stood and questioned his views of the #MeToo movement. In an exercise, he had her hold out her fist and pushed her across the room, to demonstrate, he said, that pushing back wouldn’t make her safer. Robbins referred to the Bible quote “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone,” saying that we’ve all done things we wish we hadn’t. Then he said the #MeToo movement made him “sad for women,” because many Hollywood executives he coaches are now refusing to hire attractive women believing the risk is too great.

And everyone was up in arms about what he said and rightfully so, as it didn’t seem like he had a grasped on the #MeToo movement at all.
Later this week he made an apology saying.

“I encouraged people to grow into the men and women they dream to be,” but that he still had much to learn.

“I teach that ‘life happens for you, not to you’ and what I’ve realized is that while I’ve dedicated my life to working with victims of abuse all over the world, I need to get connected to the brave women of #MeToo,” Robbins wrote.

Now here’s my two cents for all it’s worth,Tony Robbins has been self-help guru for more than four decades.
He teaches people how not to be a victim, how not to let anything in your past keep you from anything in your future. That it doesn’t matter what kind of background you came from or what took place in your life, you can overcome it.

That is what he’s all about, he himself also came from an abusive background with a bipolar mother, who drank and used to beat him and tell him he was nothing. He knows abusive, so I don’t think that he was putting down #MeToo movement per say, but he was just saying we all need to not look as ourselves as victims.

Now on the other side of the coin, I don’t think that #MeToo movement has anything to do with victimhood, I think it has to do with being able to have a voice. It has to do with being able to show other people, especially women, they are not alone in this situation.

I think it has to do with empowerment and nothing to do with being a victim, it’s about that we all have a voice and we need to use it .

I think we’ve all said things that have gotten misconstrued or had came out the wrong way, and I by no means think that he’s a woman basher or is not sympathetic to women. I have been to many of his conferences and events, he encourages and empowers people every day.

Maybe he just didn’t understand what we (Myself and #MeToo movement) are trying to say.

This is the struggle we face daily and this is one of the main reasons I agree to do this documentary on sexual abuse and rape called “This is series” because I think that this has been for so long, unspoken. It’s a tabu subject that happens to so many women and men, as I learned making this documentary.

We don’t talk about it enough, it’s off limits even still in this day and age and it needs to be spoken about, it needs a voice.
I think the #MeToo movement is that voice and projects like the one I’m on, will be able to show people out there that it’s okay to have a voice, to speak your truth. It’s not about being the victim but about being the survivor. To show others how to survive when you go through this and to show the steps you need to take to get there.

Tony Robbins in all of his seminars teaches you the steps how to let go of your past, how to forgive and move on. He teaches how to not be a victim but to be a survivor.

So to my cousin who I love dearly, I am on both sides of the fence here. I still believe in Tony Robbins and all he stands for but I am also a huge advocate of #MeToo movement and I truly think that this is a teaching moment for all of us. Teachimg us that we are too quick to judge, a teaching moment for Tony Robbins to think about what he says and how he says it.
A teaching moment to people out there who have been victims, to speak up and change your mindset and to the #MeToo movement, that we need to keep this going, the more talk, the more things will change. As I say in all of my blogs everyday…
“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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Listen to your heart, your head is stupid

Follow your heart, your head is stupid

Yesterday I wrote a blog about owning your differences, being true to your authentic self, today’s blog also goes along with listening to your authentic self.

We all think our head is the smart one, we are intelligent, we listen to our heads when it comes to all of our decisions. When we should be listening to our hearts, our hearts will never steer us wrong. Even when something seems good, but you have that feeling that says no, something doesn’t feel right, because it’s not and your heart knows that even if your head is showing you something different.

Tony Robbins said when you don’t think with your heart, you are dead and it’s true how many of us do the right thing? Do what our parents wanted us to do? What society thinks is right or should do? We follow the masses.

When we say we don’t want to go into the family business that generations have done before us, because we want to follow our hearts, our purpose, people think you are crazy because you won’t conform.

Following your heart is such a bad thing nowadays, it’s seems like your lazy, your not committed but it is what your suppose to be doing, just like owning your differences, this is who you were born to be, to do.

So why do so many people push against this? To keep the peace? To make others happy? This is your calling, this is your path, you need to listen to your intuition.

Ahhh….that other word… “intuition” that word that no one wants to talk about or listen to. Yes, we are all born with it, when we are children we didn’t need someone to tell us if someone was creepy, we automatically knew it from our intuition.

As we grew, our parents and society told us to poo poo those feelings and so we lost the ability to listen to them. But we all still have them, we have that feeling inside that we can’t shake, we know without knowing or seeing, we just feel it.

We need to listen to the red flags, we always hear that I saw red flags, you didn’t see them, you felt them but you didn’t listen, you kept going despite all the warning signs because your head said hey I don’t see anything, it’s not tangible, so go ahead.

While your heart was screaming, “Stop! Listen to me, run Forrest run!”
But because we think our heads are smarter then our hearts, we don’t listen and time and time again we learn that we should have listened to our hearts, to our intuition.

We need to listen to our hearts, we need to live our authentic life, we need to learn how to live our lives large, to be true to ourselves, it is only then that you are truly living your best life.

Forget what society says, what others say, this is your life, you get one shot this lifetime, use it to the best of your ability. Be what God or whatever your higher power called you to be, find your purpose, dance to the beat of the drummer in your soul, listen to your heart because your head is stupid.

“Be the change you want to see”

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Owning your diffences

Owning your differences

Yesterday while I was talking to a friend, she told me about the people that she worked with, they were our age yet still acted like they were in high school.

They gossiped and talked about people, they had their “clicks” and anyone who was not like them, they excluded and then talked about.
Now you would think that by this age, people would be over this already but here’s the thing, some people don’t learn and grow, some people are just stuck in a place that they felt they were “popular” Hey it worked for them back then…

But the thing about life is we are supposed to learn, to grow, to change. We are supposed to open our minds and our hearts to new things or new or different people. Why is it that some people are afraid of different, of people who don’t conform, people who aren’t afraid to dance to the beat of their own drummer?

I embrace people’s differences, at any given time my table looks like the United nations, Black, White, Spanish, Jewish, Christian, gay, straight, holy roller or thug I love them all.

This weekend while I was at this conference one of the morning rituals we did was go around to as many people we could and hold hands with them, introduce  yourself and then say “I am empowered by your….” and then tell them what you felt from them.
Most of my feed back was my smile and the fact that I really look at a person and saw their souls. Over and over I heard that from complete strangers.
Yes, I see people’s souls, yes, I was the person who brought new people in school to our lunch table, I reached out, it didn’t matter if you were a jock, a stoner, a geek, a misfit, I welcomed you because I saw through to your soul.

I don’t talk about people or put people down for their differences, I applaud their courage to be different in a world of conformists. It takes alot more courage to be different, then to conform.

The problem is it scares people, it makes people look inside themselves because maybe they aren’t being their true and authentic selves, maybe they are afraid of new things, still stuck. Maybe they are jealous that they can’t or won’t walk in their own light.
Whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter, you need to own your differences, your uniqueness, own what makes you, you.

Last year at my cousins wedding, they said it was formal, well their version of formal and ours were completely different. When we arrived in gowns and furs my girls said “Mom we are really extra” I looked at them and said pull your shoulders back, hold your head high and own your extraness!”

Yes, own your extraness, your whatever it is that God gave you to be different, own it. Don’t conform, don’t worry about the haters, don’t care what anyone one else thinks, does that effect anything in your life? Do they pay your bills? Does their opinion really mean anything in the big picture? No! Let it go, say a prayer for their pettiness, say a prayer that your glad your not like them and then move on.

So today my friends remember you are specially and wonderfully made, you are unique, different and one of a kind, own your extraness, own your differences, it is what this world needs.

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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When the student is ready, the teacher will appear

When the student is ready the teacher will appear

This is such a true saying, sometimes we are not ready to learn the lessons we need to, sometimes we are not open enough to receive. But when we are aligned up with the universe, with God, with whatever you want to call it, when we are ready, what we need will come.

I have been on this journey of change for the last 6 years, trying to at first find my voice again, then trying to answer the question we all come to “Is this all there is in life?”

From there I asked what is my purpose? What was I meant to do here on earth? When I realized my purpose, the next question was “Where am I suppose to go from here and then how do I get there?”

I have always said I have envisioned my life, free from my verbally abusive marriage, I envisioned my home, my business, all of this. At one point I started to envision motivional speaking, even though I was afraid of public speaking. I envisioned myself speaking in front of large audiences, I even envisioned myself on The Women of Faith tour.

Yes, I dream big, why not, who says you can’t? You are the only one that holds yourself back, dream big, then dream bigger!

This last weekend I was blessed with a weekend retreat with a dear friend to the AmondaRose Igoe, Empowered Speaker Event, which was a 3 day motivational speakers conference.

She was amazing, it was like a motivational speaker for dummies class. She walked you step by step on what to do, how to do it and what not to do. She broke it down with her laughter, her bigger than life personality and her warmth that made you feel like, yes, you can do this.

She also had us connect with each other, reach out, step out of our boxes which made it so much better as we made friends with people, we learned things about people we would have never guessed. That is what she did, she taught us to connect. We all have a story, we can all connect to our audience, we have to just be vulnerable, to be open, to be our authentic selves.

She made us think, gave us courage and taught us the easy steps to take this from a dream to a career. I realized that it wasn’t as hard as I thought, l have the ability to connect to people, I have the story, now I have the tools to do this, really do this.

I have been to many events, spent thousands of dollars, hearing speakers, taking classes and I have to tell you, she was by far was the best, this wasn’t a sales pitch, just trying to sell you the next big thing. No, this genuine women cared about teaching you all she knew and you felt it, you knew it.

I have come away from this knowing that yes, I am ready, this is what I want my next step to be.
I envisioned myself on stage like her, teaching others how to change their lives.

My writing will always be my first passion, but to actually be able to connect in person, that is my gift and this is the next obvious step.
So today my friends, this student was definitely ready for this teacher to appear.

My immense gratitude, to you AmondaRose, for being the teacher I needed when I needed it.

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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Being grateful all the time

Being grateful all the time

I write about this all the time, because this is such a huge thing in my life. I am so grateful for every day, for every second of my life, I live in the moment, I love big, I live large.

See I know it could be another way, hell it was for so many years and I remember those days, knowing I never want to go back there ever again.

This weekend I was blessed with a trip to Hutchington Island for a 3 day Motivational speaker conference with a dear friend. (Read more about that in tomorrow’s blog)
I got to meet some amazing people and learned how to do what I want to pursue as a full time career, better.

As I was driving home, I thought about the whole weekend, I thought about my dear friend who I went with, my new friends I had met and the endless possibilities that lie ahead of me on this next journey of my life and I started to cry.

See I am so grateful about where I am, where I am going and all the things in my life that it literally brings me to tears. It overwhelms me to think about how blessed I feel, to know in spite of my incredibly hard life I had, that I have overcame it all. I overcame the darkest, deepest hole, that I clawed my way out of. I overcame disappointment, loss and failure to be in a space of gratitude.
I overcame rape, drug and alcohol addiction, a verbally abuisve marriage, I overcame fear, self doubt and self hatred to be in this place of love.

I am constantly learning, constanly changing to become a better person, to help others see if I can do it, you can do it too.

I am here to speak my truth, to let whoever will listen, what my God has done for me. To give praise to him, to speak his name and know that without him all of this would have never been possible.

There is not a day that goes by that I don’t give him thanks as soon as I open my eyes, that I don’t give thanks even during the storms, even while life is coming at me hard and fast and I feel like I can’t breathe, I am still giving thanks, I am still filled with gratitude.

Yes, I cry, I cry all the time, tears of joy, tears of gratefulness, tears of forgiveness and love. I can remember crying tears of sorrow, of hatred, of unforgiveness, self hate, guilt and of being unfulfilled.

So much has changed in my life, because I’ve changed it, I stepped out, I decided enough was enough and I moved on.
I left all of these feelings in the past. Was it easy? Oh hell no, nothing worth anything is easy but ask me was it worth it and I will start crying as I tell you how worth all the pain was.

So today my friends, remember you can do anything you set your mind to, change your mindset to one of gratitude, change your life and you too will be feeling grateful all the time.

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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You never know until you try

You never know until you try…..

I always talk about trying new things and changing your life, it’s all up to you.
How do you know if you are going to like something or don’t like something until you try? Change is not a bad word, you just need to embrace it.

I was talking to a friend recently and she told me she worked 18 years for one company that was now closing. She was worried and she was making herself sick thinking about things that she had no idea would or would not happen.

We all worry about things we can’t change but let me ask you something if you worry does it change anything? No, it will make you lose sleep, it will make your hair fall out, it will make you run to the doctor thinking you are having a heart attack.

It will physically make you sick, believe me I know, I had all these symptoms and more and did it make any of my problems go away? No! I was more worried about how I was going to pay the doctors bills! So, now I have even more stress…that is when I realized why worry? That day I let it go and I let go of other things that stressed me out as well, like what if’s and should have.

We all have these things in our lives, things we stress about, things that we let stress us out.

Like what if I crossed the street and get hit by a bus? Should I never leave my house?

What if is a big one, what if this happens? What if that happens? What if you stop worrying about shit that might or might not happen. Why waste your life like that.

What if’s will rob you of your future, it will make you afraid of living life.
Should have… another life killer, you live with regrets and you live in the past, constanly thinking I should have done this or I should have done it that way,
second guessing yourself each step of the way.
These will all make you lose focus on the here and now.

See just like the famous saying in Forrest Gump “Life is life a box of chocolates, you never know what your going to get”
You don’t know until you try, you don’t know until you let go of fear, of what if’s and of should have’s.

So today my friends, let go of the fear, let go of the what if’s, let go of should haves, live for the moment, embrace change, look for the good in every opportunity. Learn your lessons from things and move on, live life large! Believe me, it’s all there and there are such better ways to live your life and you’ll never know until you try.

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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live your life like your living

Live your life like your living

One of my favorite songs is Tom Mcgraw’s Live like your dying. It speaks about a man who finds out he is dying and what he does, knowing that fact. He goes out and sky dives, he goes rocky mountain climbing, he rides a bull, he spends time with people he didn’t have time for before.

He does all the things he should have done all along. You don’t know when your time is coming, why live your life saying oh poor me, that can’t happen to me, I have been cursed all my life, I can’t do that.

Maybe your not taking the steps you need to, maybe because your procrastinating, maybe it’s your actions or what you speak into the atmosphere about yourself or your life that is effecting you.

If you tell a child every day from the time they were born that they are stupid that child will grow up believing that they are stupid. Same thing is happening in your mind, you might have been brought up with someone saying that to you and now you believe it, you might think your doomed.

You think you will never amount to anything because someone once said that and now that has become your mantra. You blame everything on your childhood, you are constantly putting it out there…. if it wasn’t because my parents were drunks, my dad abandoned us, we were poor, you were molested, ……insert your sob story here.

You are your own worst enemy, you are blocking your own blessings, you have told yourself this so many times you actually believe it and guess what? You are fulfilling your own prophecy.

But here’s the thing, your mind is an incredible tool, it can make you do things you never thought you could. It has let people survive unimaginable acts, the worst of times, things that might have otherwise killed us, but our minds made us believe we could survive and we did.

You can change your life, you have the control over your own mind, you can believe your a loser or you can tell yourself each and every day your a winner. You are someone and you will show them.
It is up to you, what you are putting out there and what you believe.

So today my friends, remember it’s your life, you don’t have to wait till someone tells you that your going to die to live like that. Life is too short, I always tell you that, my life motto is live life large, live it now, live it on your terms. Don’t let your past actions rule your present, live your life as if your on the way out, live it now, chose to live it like your living it to the fullest.

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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My dating Fiasco’s

My dating Fiasco’s

These last few years in dating as a single women has been a trip to say the least.

When I first got separated I didn’t date those first two years as I needed time to find me, time to forgive him and to own my part in the dismise of my marriage except for a Stella got her groove back moment, I stayed alone.

Then after my divorce I met a much younger man, he was sweet, fun and just what I needed at the time but we both wanted different things so we parted ways as friends. I had a few dates and then I met Mr.Con Artist.
If you don’t know who he is read my old blogs, ever seen the movie The other women? Well that was my story plus 3 other women, and yes, I am friends with his ex wife! I can not make this shit up, people… I am serious!

He left a horrible taste in my mouth about dating and men in general, so for the following year I didn’t date at all, I threw myself into my book and my new home remodeling job.

After being dateless for a year and all of my projects done I thought I would try dating again….yuggg maybe being single and alone was better! Here is my dating fiasco review since then.

1- Mr. I look nothing like my one picture:
As I found out walking around for 20 minutes looking for “him”

2- Mr. I hate everyone:
Who was half white and half black but proceeded to tell me how his idea of the order of races should go, with black and Spanish being in the bottom of the barrel. “Oh, did you not notice your half black and by the way I’m half Puerto Rican”
As he stood there watching me walk away with his mouth open.

3- Mr. I am Doctor so I must be important in my own mind:
That gave me 60 seconds to send him my name and number, I told him I only needed one second to tell him what a pompous ass I thought he was.

4- Mr. Hi here’s my junk:
After exchanging numbers he text me “Hi, how are you” “Fine how’s your day going?”
“Good” then BAM  here’s a pic of my junk! Seriously?
People I can’t make this shit up!!

Note: to all of you guys who send pics of your junk…your junk better be some extraordinary junk because otherwise I will be showing it to all my friends and we will all be laughing at your junk for days!!

5- Mr. I’m so famous in my own mind:
Who wanted me to come to his house and when I asked if he thought I was crazy, that I would never go to some man’s house I didn’t know. Hello….I’m a New Yorker I know better than that, he said he would come out on the patio and wave to me  because he was “so famous” He should be worried about me!
(BTW it was one newspaper article about him being the world’s youngest world traveler, great feat but doesn’t make you “famous” only in your own mind)

6- Mr. I want a relationship in one date:
He didn’t have a medium button, he talked about “Our relationship” Hello, I just met you! The he proceeded to chased me around the pool table and scared me right out the door.

7-Mr. I didn’t say 3 words:
Yes, he said he was shy, but I know I talk enough, I sure as hell don’t need to talk for the both of us!

8- Mr. Lets meet for coffee and I’ll let you watch me drink mine:
Yes, he never even offered me a cup of coffee! And this wasn’t Stsrbucks 4.00 coffee this was Dunkin donuts 1.35 coffee.
I had just came from the gym and had my keys and my phone, no purse, no pockets, no money and I sat there watching him drink coffee while he never asked if I wanted anything. He then had the nerve to call to ask me out again, my answer…..”What so I can watch you drink your coffee in front of me again…no thanks”

9. Mr. My ex is a bi-polar bitch: when I found out that it was him who was a passive aggressive, controlling asshole and his ex wife turned out to be a amazing women and yes, I am friends with her as well now!

10. Mr. I want a relationship until we get into one:
Then I realized that he still had way too much baggage that he never dealt with from his past. Too late for me and my broken heart.

I’ve learned a lot of things these last few years, like never date a guy with one picture, with pictures from the neck up, with no pictures aka: catfish or married. I learned that so many men are looking for a texting pal or pen pal.
Hello, if I wanted that there are lots of men in prison that would be happy to do that??Wtf??

They say they want relationships, yet talk about sex throughout their profiles or have half naked pics of themselves all over.

They say women are gold diggers yet post pictures of their cars, boats, homes and toys, really??

Men lost the art of dating, no longer do they take you out to dinner, or hell even lunch, now it’s a drive by date at a coffee place and if your lucky you’ll get a cup of coffee or maybe just the pleasure of their texts with no meet up in sight. Hello, we are on a dating site to meet…. am I missing something here?
God, I miss the days of real gentlemen and real dating…

Just so you don’t think it’s me, I did meet my first boyfriend from a dating site and have meet a few nice guys, just no connection, no chemistry in person but still nice guys.

So yes, I believe there are still nice guys out there and
no, I don’t think all men are dogs, I just seemed to attract more of the dog type, see I said that in past tense as I no longer want to out that out in the universe.

So today my friends, my biggest tip to this dating thing is to have a sense of humor, laugh, call your friends laugh about your disastrous dates. Keep trying, keep a open mind, you never know…the next one could be the one…
And in my case if not, well…it could be my next blog!

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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Life and death are in the power of the tongue

Life and death are in the power of the tongue

How many times have I talked about what you put out will come back, the book The secret is a great example.
The bible first started this movement with “You will reap what you sow” Then the secret took that, put a different twist on it and ran with it.

Lousie Hayes, Dr.Wayne Dyer, Ester Hicks and many others have written hundreds of books on this subject.
Intentions, the law of attraction, the power of the tongue, there are many words used but it all means the same thing, what you put out, is what you will get back.

Listen to the words you use everyday, are you calling your children rebellious? Or are you calling them a great leader? Are you calling them weak and useless or are you speaking greatness over them by saying you have the power, you are a child of the most high God.

What are they hearing from you?
What are they believing about themselves…Are you telling them they are stupid, lazy and will never make anything of themselves or are you filling their minds with postive affirmations, like you can do anything you set your mind to, never give up, I have faith in you.. what are you depositing into them?

You have the power in your tongue to change your life..

Are you saying you can’t do that, are you saying that will never happen, I always have bad luck? Well, then you are speaking it into existence.
God made man in his image so that means you are a spirt man…you have the same power as God himself. You have the power to speak things into existence.

I am…
What are you saying after the word I am?
I am…sick
I am…broke
I am…broken

Then that is what you are…you are speaking it, giving life to it…

Maybe you need to be to speaking
I am…the head and not the tail
I am….healed
I am….blessed
I am….whole
I am….wealthy

When you start walking in the spirt, in the strenght that you know who you are and you know your power,
That I am…. created after God himself, that I have the power to speak things into existence, you will change your life.

Let me ask you this…Who are you hanging out with and what are they speaking?
Are they telling you “Man, you can never do that”

“Do you know where you came from?”

“We’re always going to be broke and uneducated, who do you think you are?”

You need to cut them off, you need to change your mind, change your thoughts, change your life.

What are you feeding yourself?

Unforgiviness
Pride
Jealousy
Ego
Hatred
Pettiness

Do you have all of these things in your life now? Are you holding on to them? Are they your crutch?

Starting feeding your soul
Forgiveness
Kindness
Gratefulness
Praise

Praise is the only thing you can do for God that he can’t do for himself because then he would be prideful, so if we are made in his image than why are we so prideful? Why can’t we forgive? Why can’t we speak these kind things over ourselves or others?

So today my friends, know that this is the year to take your dominion over favor and time, to change your life and what you speak.

Remember the power of life and death is in your tongue….speak wisely.

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

**Coming soon my latest book:
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