Be your own hero

Be your own hero

I read this saying this morning and I just had to write about it.
It went like this, don’t give your courage away to someone who can’t appreciate it, don’t give your patience away to people who will abuse it… don’t look for someone to be your hero, be your own hero.

Don’t let someone take over your life, your soul, don’t expect them to be your whole life, to fill your being with themselves, to change yourself to please them, to “complete” them.

No, you need to have someone who is filled already, who knows who they are, who is already complete and when you come together, its because you want to share this wonderful life you already have.

It’s like so many people who say when I lose weight then my life will start, when I get this job, the perfect person or the money… then my life will be complete and perfect.

You expecting something from the outside to do this for you, when you should be whole already, you should feel fulfilled on the inside of yourself, you don’t need another person to love you, you need to love yourself first.

Why do you think they tell you all the time on a plane to put the air mask on you first, then on your loved ones because if you have no air, you can’t help others.
If your not loving yourself,  if your not fulfilled, if your not happy within yourself nothing, no person, no amount of money, no job is going to do it.

I personally don’t want that responsibility, I don’t want someone to expect me to fill all their needs, to “complete” them, that’s not my job, I have to be my own hero…that is a job in it self. I can not, nor will I be responsible for another person’s happiness, that’s on you.

Believe me I tried for years, constantly trying to make other’s happy but it never worked, it didn’t matter what I did or didn’t do.
They were never happy nor would they ever be happy because I realized they weren’t happy within themselves. Until they changed themselves nothing I or anyone else¬† ever did would matter.

So today my friends remember, you are responsible for you, your health, your outlook on life, the things you want to change and your happiness.
Don’t wait for a hero to come along because they just might end up being a fake in tights, trust yourself, change your life, learn to be your own hero.

“Be the change you want to see”

“And just when the caterpillar thought his life over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”

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