Tuesday Treadmill Treats
My, you have big balls behind that computer screen
Technology is amazing, look I write my blog while I’m on the treadmill, how great is that?
I can keep in touch with friends and family all around the world. I can have my message touch thousands, one day even millions of people, from the comfort of my own home. Yes, today’s technology is a wonderful thing.
But with every good comes some bad and technology is no different. All of a sudden some people get behind a computer screen and they become a critic, look how random people tore into the singer Pink about how they thought she was fat. They made such horrible comments, comments that mind you, that they would never have enough balls to say to her face. Or the other trolls that blast this celebrity or that one online.
Same thing with today’s on line dating, these men say things they would never dream of saying in person but because you are “anonymous” all of a sudden you grow a big pair!
Would you really have enough guts to call a woman baby, sexy or delicious, just meeting them? Probably not. Would you ask her what underwear she was wearing on the first date? Would you ask her if she likes to get spanked while sitting across from her on the first date? Yeah right.. not unless you wanted to get slapped.
No, but boy oh boy you got some things to say while sitting behind the safety of that screen!
They feel protected, like all of sudden these meek, shy people suddenly sit behind this screen and they become different people. They think it’s okay to spew hateful things to others, call you names, you get up on their invisible soap box and say and do things they would never have the guts to do otherwise.
I am sorry, I am me, behind the screen or in your face, I tell it like it is. I wouldn’t say something on here, that I wouldn’t be afraid to say to your face.
I have feelings and I know others do as well, so I think about how what I say to someone would effect them and how would it feel, if someone said it to me.
I think about a person’s feelings, it doesn’t matter if it’s behind a screen or not, words can hurt. Take it from a person who was in a verbally abusive marriage, words can cut you to the core.
Words can change who you are. Why would you want to cut someone down when you can lift them up instead.
Why would you chose mean words when kind words go so much deeper, what does that say about you as a person? Think about that one….
So today my friends this is a message to all of the people out there behind their computer screens…grow a real set, a big set while your at it, not just the pretend set you put on when you sit behind the screen.
It is then, when you can say the things behind the screen to a person’s face that you will be real, that you will actually have a set of balls.
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