Dont judge me by one blog

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Don’t judge me by one blog


I write this blog every day, 5 days a week for the last 3 years. I write about everything, my life, the world, exercise, dating, family, love, disappointment, failures, hopes and dreams, there is not a topic I haven’t written about.


Yesterday I told someone that I write, they went to my website and read my blog I had wrote the day before, called “There are no princes.”

Then they proceed to tell me that I am not a inspirational writer but a man basher.


Well, they were right….for that day I was a man basher, being a single women in today’s world is tough and after 2 years of being lied to, being stood up, catfished and listenIng to men say horrible and vulgar things to me, I had lost it and yes I wrote about it, just like I write about everything else in my life.


But does one blog defined a person? Is that all your willing to look at? Did you even bother to read last week series on living life large, loving big, because you never know when you will lose a loved one. Did you read the blog on forgiveness, when I forgave my rapist? How about the one on never giving up no matter how many times you fall on your face?


No, you didn’t, you chose to judge me on one and only one blog and frankly that is your problem, I ¬†imagine this is how you view people and the world.


I know there is more than one side to a story, I know there is more about a person then you see, I know people have flaws yet I can see, they have a huge heart. I see the big picture, the whole picture before I judge someone and even then I think there may be extenuating circumstances that might come into play, besides who am I to judge?


So today my friends, don’t be so fast to judge someone else, they say first impressions are critical but they are not the end all and be all, sometimes a first impression may be bad but if your willing to look past that, give that person another chance you might have a chance to know an incredible person. Don’t lose that opportunity.


“Be the change you want to see”


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