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Let’s talk about the crazy
Today I am re running a oldie but goodie. Hope you all have a wonderful Fourth of July weekend!
Yes, unfortunately there will be some people in your life that are crazy. My bestie use to say the crazy doesn’t come out until you date someone for at least 6 months, I believe that, your on your best behavior but that 6 month mark it’s getting harder and harder to keep the act up and BAM here comes the crazy!
But in today’s world, crazy can be really scary, I knew two friends that were killed because of crazy ex’s.
I myself was stalked for months, I didn’t know who it was but he certainly knew everything about me, where I lived, who I walked to school with, my routine, he told me he was going to slit my throat, watch my blood drip out and other unmentionable things, for months I looked over my shoulder, I never went anywhere alone, I was petrified, it turned out to be a guy I just dated a few times, who knew? Crazy and scary.
Then my daughter had an ex that turned, he called all her friends, he blocked his number and called all night long, into the wee hours of the morning, he followed her, he showed up where ever she was at and then he hacked into her school account to mess up her grades by taking tests and doing her assignments wrong. That was where I drew the line and had a restraining order put against him.
I don’t get it someone breaks up with you, it’s over, my motto their loss not yours.They lost a good thing and the next person will be getting you, a gem.
Move on, get over it, hell even when I was lied to, conned and cheated on by Mr Con Artist, after I busted him in the head with his phone and broke it, threw his crap into the street and left him to walk back to the airport with 2 days remaining on his trip here,
it was over, don’t call me, I won’t be calling you again, no second chances, its over, finished, caput, done, adios sucker, your outta here!
Yet some people can’t let go, they don’t get the concept of its over, and that’s when the crazy comes in full force.
So let me give you some warning signs and trust me they are always signs..
1. Trust your judgment, if your senses are screaming or even whispering listen!!
2. Are they quick to jump off the handle and then quick to apologize?
3.Are they controlling, wanting to know who your with, your every move?
4. Do they separate you from friends and family?
5. Does 2 +2 don’t add up yet your still making excuses for all the things they are telling you, are you always try to justify it?
6. There is something not right but you can’t put your finger on it?
7. Are they insanely jealous even for no reason?
If you answered any of these questions yes,
Run Forest run, pack your stuff and get out of town, God gave you that gift of sense for a reason, use it!
So today my friends listen to your inner voice, know when something is off, get out quick, the crazy is coming and you don’t want to stick around for the full show.
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