Thursday Treadmill Treats
Mr.Perfect for me part 2
Yesterday I wrote about the stress of remodeling and moving and how I would love to find someone to share this and my life with. When I wrote a blog some time ago someone wrote there is no perfect man, I replied ” I am not looking for perfect, just perfect for me”
I know some of my girlfriends have a long list of criteria…he has to be 6’0-6’3, between the ages of 45-50, make over 100k a year, must be professional, kids grown, not in debt, house has to be over 4000 square feet…yada,yada,yada….
I am serious and one thing missing off their list and your done, next….
I am not looking for that but as I’ve gotten older there are some things I will not compromise about, sorry not going to take less.
For me first and foremost you need to believe in God, you need to have a kind heart, you need to be funny (funny is the new sexy) You need to be able to laugh at yourself, you need to be my partner not my patrol officer , you need a compassionate and giving spirit, you need to be loyal and you need to be grateful for everything in your life.
Not to much to ask, most humans already have these things inside of them so it’s not unrealistic to ask for these things.
But I will NOT under no circumstances put up with cheating, lying, drama of any kind, if your controlling, jealous, hateful, unforgiving, racist, ungrateful, an atheist,
If your fronting to the world or you feel your better than anyone else.
Look I’ve dated these guys before not going back there again, I don’t need a man in my life, I would like one but not so much so that I will take the first loser because I am afraid of being alone as so many women do.
I value my self worth, I now know I am worthy of being treated like a queen and I will not settle for peasant treatment any longer.
See, I know I will treat my man like the king he is, I will have his back, I will be his biggest cheerleader, I will let him be him, the one God has made and not try to change him, I will trust him, be loyal to him and be the best women I can be to him.
And the only thing I expect in return is the same…not to much to ask for.
So today my friends realize your self worth, know your worthy of a great man, not just a body that fills your bed. Realize the superficial doesn’t last, it’s what your made of that does.
Rewrite your list…and trust that God has your perfect man out there, the man perfect for you.