Thursday Treadmill Treats
There are good men out there
This week I have been writing about wanting to find someone, I don’t need a man to complete me, I am complete, I don’t need a man to make me happy, I am happy but I would like to have someone to share my life with.
With all of my dating horror stories, well okay they are not all bad, just most of them!
I always try to look at the bright side, at least I get good stories to write about from them. But honestly, I truly know there are good men out there.
I was blessed enough to have 3 wonderful men in my life growing up, my dad, my step dad and a incredible family friend named Sam, these 3 men were the best men I’ve ever met, they are what real men should be. The men today need to have taken lessons from these 3 men.
So it’s not like I dont know what a good man looks like. I have also picked quite a few really good men in my life, it just didn’t work out for one reason or another but they are still in my life because they are such incredible men.
I have some great male friends, single dads, hard working, willing to help when your in a bind, kind and caring men who I am proud to call friends.
But I have also picked some winners, the ones that left you shaking your head asking yourself “What was I thinking?”
I can not lump all men together and say all men are bad, that would be like saying all women are bitches and I know for a fact that is not true, I have the most incredible group of women friends that are kind and sweet, caring and loving, that any man would be blessed to have.
So no, I will not lump them all together even if sometimes it seems like they are all block heads looking for only one thing, with no manners or filters on their tongues. I do know that a good man is hard to find and one day when I am not looking I will find that good man and when I do, it will blow my mind.
So today my friends, remember there are good people out there, don’t let the bads ones spoil your search and say all of them are no good. Keep a open mind, keep throwing out the bad ones and keep looking for that diamond in the rough. They are out there…you know how I know? Because I am a good one, you are a good one…we are out there that means they are out there as well.
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