There are good men out there..

Thursday Treadmill Treats


There are good men out there


This week I have been writing about wanting to find someone, I don’t need a man to complete me, I am complete, I don’t need a man to make me happy, I am happy but I would like to have someone to share my life with.


With all of my dating horror stories, well okay they are not all bad, just most of them!

I always try to look at the bright side, at least I get good stories to write about from them. But honestly, I truly know there are good men out there.


I was blessed enough to have 3 wonderful men in my life growing up, my dad, my step dad and a incredible family friend named Sam, these 3 men were the best men I’ve ever met, they are what real men should be. The men today need to have taken lessons from these 3 men.


So it’s not like I dont know what a good man looks like. I have also picked quite a few really good men in my life, it just didn’t work out for one reason or another but they are still in my life because they are such incredible men.


I have some great male friends, single dads, hard working, willing to help when your in a bind, kind and caring men who I am proud to call friends.


But I have also picked some winners, the ones that left you shaking your head asking yourself “What was I thinking?”


I can not lump all men together and say all men are bad, that would be like saying all women are bitches and I know for a fact that is not true, I have the most incredible group of women friends that are kind and sweet, caring and loving, that any man would be blessed to have.


So no, I will not lump them all together even if sometimes it seems like they are all block heads looking for only one thing, with no manners or filters on their tongues. I do know that a good man is hard to find and one day when I am not looking I will find that good man and when I do, it will blow my mind.


So today my friends, ┬áremember there are good people out there, don’t let the bads ones spoil your search and say all of them are no good. Keep a open mind, keep throwing out the bad ones and keep looking for that diamond in the rough. They are out there…you know how I know? ┬áBecause I am a good one, you are a good one…we are out there that means they are out there as well.


“Be the change you want to see”


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