Unless you’ve been there..
Every one of us has been through things in our lives, divorce, death of a loved one, or multiple loved ones, sickness, deceit, even back stabbing by so called friends or family.
Some of us have been lied to, cheated on, been through drug and alcohol addiction, sexual abuse, verbal abuse, rape and even more incredibly traumatic events.
But how can I relate to you if I didn’t go through it? How can I be a comfort to you and give you advise if I don’t know your pain, if I personally didn’t know or go through your struggle.
I can’t tell you I know how you feel, because I can’t possibly know how you feel if I haven’t been there and that’s a fact. Yes, I can be sympathetic, I can be there and listen but I couldn’t imagine what your feeling unless I once felt that pain in my life.
As much as I would have liked to have a “perfect” life without all my hardships and tragedies, if I did I wouldn’t be able to sit here and write this blog.
I wouldn’t be able to touch so many of you who write to me and tell me how my words helped them. I would just be giving lip service to something I knew nothing about and you would be able to see right through me.
Since I’ve started making my YouTube videos again, so many people lately, have said the same thing to me, that I am real and raw, that is what makes me so relatable because they can see I’ve been there, I’ve been hurt, I know addiction, I know the pain of a abuisve relationship, the fact I’ve picked losers over and over, I know what the bottom looks like and so they can relate.
I had to go through all I did so that I could help others, so that I can say I know how you feel at this moment but I am here to tell you that it will be okay. That you will get through it, even though it seems like you’ve hit rock bottom, even when you can’t see any light, it will be okay, I’ve been there too.
I know it seems hopeless now but I survived and you can too, just hold on and know your not alone, you are not the only one suffering or has suffered.
It will get better, it can and will be incredible if you just hold on to the tiniest mustard seed of hope.
How would I know it will get better if it hasn’t already happened to me? How would I know how it feels to hold on, to believe and to literally visualize a better life for myself and then have it all come to pass, if I didn’t do it myself.
I needed to go through all of this to be able to comfort others just as you need to go through your struggles so that you may help someone else out.
So today my friends, remember you needed to go through all you’ve been through for a reason, you may not be able to see it now, there may only be blackness and storms, you may be barely able to breathe, but eventually the sun will come out again, there will be a rainbow after the storm and you will know your strength and be able to say…I’ve been there…let me help you…this is my story…this is my testimony, I’ve been there.
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” And just when the caterpillar thought his life was over…he turned into a beautiful butterfly”
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