What’s up with todays young woman?

TGIF Treadmill Treats

 What’s up with today’s women?

I may be old school but for the life of me I can’t understand today’s young women, they are truly lazy as I see it.

Go ahead jump all over me but I call it as I see it, I was married, I had 2 kids, I took care of 12 sugar gliders,12 ferrets,100 (yes that is not a misprint! ) lizards, a dog and a cat. I ran our business which I had to call 40 restaurants each day to get orders, place them, write tickets for all of them and balance all the books (no there were no computers to do that back then!) I would then clean and have a full meal (no mac and cheese or hot dogs) on the table by 6 pm.

After cleaning up, homework and baths I would then do hair until 11, clean up , do another load of clothes before dropping in bed to start it all over by 6 am to go to the gym before school started.

These women don’t know what it is to cook, their houses look like a pig pen, they walk around in sweats all day and when their husbands or in today’s world “baby daddy” comes home they expect them to do it?

Look I am all for working together, I never had that luxury with my ex,, yes if he three in some laundry, helped you clean or cook that is what a true relationship is about, helping the one you love.

Bit for him to work all day while your home and he doesn’t even have a clean house or a cooked meal, please get a grip.

Its no wonder there are so many and I mean so many younger guys going for older women, we know how to treat a man, that is why we didn’t have 5 “baby daddies” back then. You found a good man, you did your part, he did his part and you stayed together when things got tough.

Look, think of it this way, its summer you took your whole day off to clean the house, Monday comes you go to work, your kids are home all day doing whatever and you come home and the house is a mess , there is no food left and they are laying around watching Oprah, ( okay that was my days! )  now your good and pissed and you be! You busted your ass all day and come home to see this, hello ladies,this is what your husbands feel like!

 

Yes, I should have stood up and say “hey, I need some help, we’re a team” but I didn’t, believe me a lesson well learned and one that I will never repeat. But to do nothing except taking care of your kids ,yes, yes I know its a full time job but I knew women who had 3 kids ,5 kids kids with disabilities do it, so stop your whining about I don’t know how hard it is, did you just read my story, please what I would have gave “just” to take care of the kids , clean and cook!

Your too busy worrying about movie stars life’s, your friends crap on twitter or the latest jackass reality show, sorry I am real I have said it before I am not Willy Wonker, I will not sugar coat crap!

Get off your ass, be a partner,  I get your tired, sorry you have kids, you will rest when they are grown, take then to the park, bike riding, play dates, these are the things they will remember believe me , my kids bring up stuff that we did 10 years ago, they remember the times you spent with them, it will strengthen your relationship and it will give you a sense of accomplishment.

So today my friends send this to the young women in your life,talk to them,  show them how its done , teach them to be the best women, the best mom and the best partner they can be! 

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